Brenda José 4th Memorial 2017

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Brenda at the Fertility Temple, Bali (8 February 2004)


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Robert at the Fertility Temple, Bali (8 February 2004). Both Twin Souls Robrenda will meet again after 2020…


Brenda José 4th Memorial 2017
(23 December)

“It’s been 4 years since you crossed over.
You whispered that you will be reborn after the 5th memorial which makes people wonder
how we’ll ever find each other again.
But we will… as we always had before…”
~ Whisperer Robert Chaen

There are 130 million babies born every year, but we’ll find each other. She will be born as a girl…


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Robert at Brenda’s Ossuary in Chaiwan Catholic Cemetery, Hong Kong  – Ossuary number 3D/06-61, Unit 18805 (29 October 2017)


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By Robrenda
Published on 23 December 2017 (Brenda’s 4th Memorial)
Updated on 23 January 2018.

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An Honest Death: A Palliative Care Doctor’s Final Days

An Honest Death: A Palliative Care Doctor’s Final Days

Watch heart-touching original NHK World video on Masahiro Tanaka:

It all began with an unusual request: “Could you film everything about me until I die?” Masahiro Tanaka was a palliative care doctor and Buddhist priest who was diagnosed with terminal cancer. He was an end-of-life specialist who helped thousands of patients die peacefully. Now he had to face his own impending death. The film crew set out to document an “ideal death”, but what they witnessed was quite different. This program offers an unflinchingly honest look at human nature at its most vulnerable.

“I flew to Hong Kong and rushed to see Brenda with the high hope of helping her fight for her life. But when I arrived at ICU Ruttonjee Hospital, she was in a coma. One and half hours later, the doctor came. He said they had done all they could have done for her.

I remember the doctor advising me and asking for my permission to DNR Brenda, my late wife if her heart fails – as it’s pointless to prolong her life for maybe just a few more minutes.

All her major organs i.e. kidney, lungs had failed or failing (except her heart and brain) from toxic contamination from a perforated intestines caused by Crohn’s Disease. She suffered from Crohn’s Disease for 19 years. She was one of the first Crohn’s Disease patients to be diagnosed in Hong Kong. She survived her first perforation of intestines in 1995 after being saved by a visiting British Chinese Surgeon; but the second time it was not detected until it was too late.

Brenda always wanted to die before me. That was our Soul Agreement. We agreed that if one of us were a “vegetable”, we will give permission to “pull the plug”. 

Seeing Brenda die helplessly over 23 hours 23 minutes on 23 December 2013 was the hardest ordeal and test of faith I ever had to go through. Read about “Facing the day of Brenda José’s death”:

Now it’s my Twin Souls Mission as a Soul Whisperer to help others crossover, help their families get closure, and maybe receive an Afterlife Sign from their loved ones. My guardian angel Brenda whispered to me on 15 February 2017 that she will be reincarnate 5 years after she crossed over. And we’ll find each other again.

I will find Brenda out of the 130 million babies born each year. I’ll recognize a little girl whom I’ll know it will be her.”
~ Whisperer Robert Chaen
Some quotes from the video:

  • Teacher means “to be born before”.
    ● Speaking was a way to confirm the value of his life.
    ● Nothing is lonelier than being ignored.
  • DNR = Do Not Resuscitate
  • Continuous Deep Sedation – sleep state, usually done with the patient has less than 2 weeks to live. The person passes away in their sleep. ‘Let me sleep when the pain becomes unbearable.”


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By Robrenda
Published on 12 December 2017.
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I’m The Lord of The Ring: My lost wedding ring appeared from nowhere

On 14 November 2017 at around 7:30pm I realized that I had lost my Twin Souls Wedding Band yet again! It was the next day after moving office to our new place in Starhill Kuala Lumpur, after a very long day of unpacking with the movers, and going to Telekom Malaysia to terminate our old telephone line.

I had dropped my loose-fitting ring quite a few times since I found my wedding ring on 1 August 2017. I had been searching desperately everywhere for it since Brenda José crossed in December 2013. (read more click here)

Sometimes I would drop it into the bathtub, onto the floor, and even into a laundry bag – it was that loose that I sometimes didn’t notice it until a few hours later. Why is it so loose? Well, my Wedding Ring used to fit on my wedding finger but it didn’t fit any more, so I could only fit it through my left hand pinkie finger.

Then I really freaked out!

I must have dropped it while aggressively shaking my hands in the Air Hand Dryer in Quill CityMall KL. This was after visiting Telekom Malaysia and immediately after having an early dinner with Ann Tan, a dear friend of mine of many years. Ann had been driving me around and helping me in all aspects of our office move.

I dropped everything and went straight first to the Quill toilet to investigate. I didn’t wait to call Quill Lost & Found just in case I might alert a cleaning staff to take it and not report it.

I promised and prayed and prayed to Brenda and my Angels IF I found the ring, I would not wear it anymore UNTIL I fix it to fit one of my fingers. I Promise!

I was sure that it must still be at the bottom of the air hand dryer. Noooo! There was no ring! Horrors!
Nothing on the floor either! It can’t be happening.

Then I went to the lost & found concierge counter. I was told I must make a Police Report first. I went to Dang Wangi Police Station and made my report. After that I went back to Quill CityMall and request to view the CCTV footage the next day.

The next day I received no call from Quill.
Then around 1:14pm suddenly I froze. My Wedding Ring was clearly on the floor in front of the Master Bedroom toilet bowl!

NO WAY José!
I had used the master bedroom toilet a few times that day including having a shower, but I NEVER ever saw my wedding ring in front of the toilet bowl. I was inside the whole morning.

It was like someone came into my place when I’m not in the toilet, and put the ring where I could easily see it as the toilet was used several times daily by me.

I always receive countless Afterlife Signs since the day when Brenda José, my late wife, Twin Soul, and guardian angel passed on. Brenda’s afterlife signs are vast, unprecedented in scale, some are irrefutable, many are dramatically significant.

Her signs can be a warning, a premonition, a guidance, a protection, or a Karmic Lesson.

And Brenda loves to prank me once in a while – because I can get too uptight or worried during my spiritual and business journeys.

But this one is one of the more “dramatic” afterlife signs – kind of Brenda teaching me a good lesson! 
Come on, my wedding appearing from nowhere suddenly at a common spot! That’s pretty woo woo!

What message I got from Brenda is:
●  Don’t procrastinate doing the important things.
●  Treasure priceless belongings.
●  Trust the Angels have my best interest at heart, even if they have to force extremely difficult situations on me such as most recently I’m forced to change and move my office of 10 years (ChangeU Center) to a totally different area from Petaling Jaya to Starhill Kuala Lumpur. I was so so resisting this change and at the most inconvenient time.
But now after we moved in, it’s the best place yet!
She loves to whisper to me “you’ve not seen anything yet!”
Here another chapter nay another BOOK of Brenda’s Roller Coaster Ride of my life!
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By Robrenda
Published on 17 November 2017.
(previously titled: The Woo Woo Lost & Found Story of My Wedding Ring)
Updated on 10 February 2018.

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My First Business in Woodside Hong Kong & Andy Bandara (Ex-PDL): A Blast from the Past

Today I chatted with Andy Bandara, one of two old business partners (the other was David Ng) whom I brought to Hong Kong to spearhead my first ever business called “Business Dynamics“. I lost touch with Andy for many years.

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It was wonderful to share and cherish old memories from that long spring and summer of 1990. At that time I operated the business from The Woodside, an old colonial house up the one-way Mount Parker Road, Quarry Bay. It was also known as “Gwei Uk”, The Ghost House by locals as there were reports of sighting of ghosts. Woodside was used by the Imperial Japanese Army during the Second World World and executions were known to have been carried out here. Taxis would hate to drive us up there as they would drive down empty. There are no lights up the road. Hikers love to hike up Mount Parker Road to Tai Tam Road which takes 1½ hours.  click video for full view of Taikoo Shing, and even Holy Cross Catholic Cemetery where my late wife Brenda Marie de José Ossuary is (Number 061)  Hong Kong Hiking Tour: Quarry Bay MTR→Mount Parker→Tai Tam→Wong Nai Chung→Wan Chai

Although I’m a Soul & Ghost Whisperer I’m not clairvoyant so I never saw any ghosts when I lived there. I’m Claircognizant – the intuitive ability of clear knowing.

As residents of Woodside we had separate, small & long, single bedrooms each. Some rooms were quite large and can accommodate a family of 4. There was also men and women dormitories basement that can fit more than 10 people, a huge kitchen, and big laundry and dryer machines.

It was a foreigners community of 30+ people – mainly Americans and some Asians. I rented the biggest front room downstairs as my office. I worked and lived there for nearly 3 years from 1989-1992. I also got my third brother Dr. Andrew to stay in Woodside when he first arrived and worked for the Department of Health.

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Woodside, up Mount Parker Road, Quarry Bay – a century old historic residence of the Tai Koo Sugar Company characterized by its marvelous facing brick works, arched verandahs, timber doors and windows.

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Andy and I started sharing wonderful stories about our exploits and adventures in 1990. I had previously noticed Michael, our American Woodside community leader had conducted business courses there. I wanted to start up my own training business.

During a visit in Malaysia, a friend of mine Tracy Lee re-connected David Ng to me as he was a well known Trainer with Personal Development Leadership (founded by Dato’ Lawrence Chan). David, Tracy and I belonged to The Valiant Vanguards in school.


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Dato’ Lawrence Chan, founder of PDL

I ended hiring David and Andy as trainers for my new business. We did 2 personal growth workshops in Hong Kong. It lasted some 6 months but we couldn’t generate enough traction and business to sustain it. I sold my first Kornhill Hong Kong property to fund it but eventually I lost my shirt!

Business was not ok, but our social life was fantastic.

Then I met Mary Reynolds, the PRO of Diane Freis, the Hong Kong-based Fashion Designer. I fell head over heels in love with Mary. I lost my virginity to Mary. Yes, I was then a 31 year-old virgin  1 year after leaving my 10-years of Brahmacharya or celibacy life and as the co-Founder of Brahma Kumaris Malaysia. Read about: Why I Joined & Left Brahma Kumaris Raja Yoga Meditation CULT (2nd Chinese BK).

Andy said I was so distracted by Mary. Mary was an Alpha female, an outspoken and badass British. She was beautiful, elegant, classy, gorgeous dresser, the life of the party,  and had “the best legs in the fashion industry”. Diane Freis later shared with me that she was her best PRO.

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Diane Freis, the Hong Kong-based Fashion Designer

Andy and I recalled Mary and her 2 friends one called Yim organizing some port luck parties at Woodside, all walks of life came. Those were the fun days. Mary’s 2 friends went out with David and Andy.

Woodside had a community car and community Apple Macintosh. I drove them to Stanley, The Peak, etc. I took them to the Malaysian Association of Hong Kong which used to meet religiously every Friday evenings at some outlet in Central.


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I was the Emcee for the Malaysian Association Annual Ball. Here with Michelle Yeoh, Maria Cordero (Fei Mah), Jackie Chan, the late Anita Mui, and Maggie Cheung (not in pic).  Willie Chan from Ipoh was Jackie’s manager then.

In hindsight I was an inexperienced entrepreneur. I did not know how to market training workshops and had no database which I have now. All I had was a dream, and I’m proud I did it. My tuition fee was losing my first property.

It became my foundation when I joined Life Dynamics in 1991 (a Large Group Awareness Training founded by Robert White), Wings Seminars, and Franklin Quest in 1992 (which later merged and become FranklinCovey of 7 Habits fame). Later I became known as “The Father of Asia FireWalking” and coached Nestle, the first Corporate FireWalking in Asia.


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The World’s First & Only Live TV FireWalk Charity: TVB Tung Wah Charity Show – we raised HK$68m that night


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I always FireWalk first before my Graduates


Andy and David split from Hong Kong. David now lives in New Zealand. Andy immediately went to London, 3 years later ended up in Ireland. He has a 24 year old son and he is a Chef at a local Malaysian-Asian restaurant in Galway. Andy went to ACS (Anglo-Chinese School), Ipoh.


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Galway coastline

Published on 19 October 2017.
Updated on 21 October 2017.

By Whisperer Robert Chaen.





The Ghost of Captain Zaharie whispered WHERE, WHY & WHAT happened to MH370 – Part 2

I continued whispering with Captain Zaharie one day later in this Part 2 – as he kept repeating himself in Part 1, and did not proceed further what happened after he found out the crew and passengers were sleeping and some with head injuries.

The following is PART2 of my Twin Souls-Ghost Whisperings with the Ghost of Captain Zaharie together with Love Angel Brenda, my crossed-over wife and Twin Soul.
[Legend: RB = Robrenda, CZ = Captain Zaharie]

RB:  You said you want to tell the whole world, USA, China to help Malaysia, to help free Anwar. You asked is it a bad thing to do? Yes it is a good thing you are doing.
CZ:  Yes, thank you! Thank you!

RB:  So what are you going to do now?
CZ:  I don’t know! (long pause)

RB:  Why don’t you land in Maldives Airport?
CZ:  I don’t want! (long pause)
I don’t know how to explain to Maldives about my sleeping passengers and injured crew and others!
What excuses can I give?
Maldives may punish me for this!

I’m a good pilot, you know!
I can’t hurt anyone!
What am I going to do now?

I want to land but what about my reputation!

RB:  Are your passengers and crew sleeping or unconscious?
CZ:  I don’t know!
I see them sleeping but I can also hear many voices talking to me!

RB:  Captain Zaharie, don’t talk to those voices yet, ok!
Tell me what you are doing.
CZ:  I’m flying, that’s what I doing.
RB:  Good! 
CZ:  I don’t want to land in Maldives.
I’m flying further. (long pause)
I can see the sunrise.
Yes, day is coming real soon.
I’m ok.
I’m ready to go.

RB:  Where are you flying to now?
CZ:  No where.
I’m too far from any airport.
I try my best to land safely on the sea.
I’m a good pilot. I can land safely.
I have been doing many simulation exercises about emergency landing on the sea.
I will save and land the plane in one piece.
I can do this.

This is Captain Zaharie (he turned on the intercom)
We are about to land on the sea anytime now.
Don’t worry I have trained myself to land on the sea many, many times.
Crew get ready for landing.

(CZ checking on fuel. MH370 suddenly ran out of fuel)
We rapidly descending.
Allah help me please!
I’ll save my plane.
I’ll land safely. (long pause)

We made it!
I didn’t crash land.
We are floating. (long pause)
I see water is coming into the cockpit (Captain Zaharie is praying hard)
People will remember me.
I landed safely on the sea.
Goodbye my Sayang.
Goodbye. (longest pause)

[This is a Ghost Crossover Ritual] 

RB:  Captain Zaharie may Allah have mercy and compassion for you now.
May your Soul cross-over and rest in peace.
May your family, relatives, and friends get closure.
May the Souls of Passengers of MH370 cross-over and rest in peace.
May all your family, relatives, and friends of MH370 get closure.
If you want to show anyone any Afterlife Signs, please go ahead.

RB:  Captain Zaharie, now you can talk to those voices who are not sleeping now.
CZ:  Hello, jangan bising (don’t be noisy)!

RB:  Captain Zaharie talk to your Crew now.
CZ:  Hi Fariq (Co-Pilot) I’m sorry to lock you out.
Nothing personal. You are a good guy.
I’m sorry Crew. I must do what I must do, ok.
I’m on a mission to free Anwar, he will thank me. (long pause)

RB:  Captain Zaharie talk to your passengers now.
CZ:  OK, I hope none of you are hurt badly. You’ll be ok.
You’ll be fine.

RB:  Captain Zaharie, say goodbye to your Co-Pilot, your Crew, and your Passengers now.
CZ:  This is Captain Zaharie.
I say my goodbyes to you all.
I’ll see you soon, ok.

RB:  Captain Zaharie, say goodbye to your family, relatives, and friends now.
CZ:  I’m sorry I need to go Sayang.
I’m sorry…  goodbye…
[He is whispering to many names of individual and praying.
We’ll just wait for him to complete the Ghost Cross-over Ritual which he is not conscious of.
I light a candle for Captain Zaharie now.
I cleanse myself.
This took around 40 minutes.]

RB:  Captain Zaharie, do you have any last thing to tell now?
CZ:   I just want to free Anwar.
RB:  Captain Zaharie, you have done all you can do, ok for now.
Let it go. Let God. Let Allah now.
Good night Malaysian 370 now.
Goodbye Captain Zaharie now.

RB:  Captain Zaharie may Allah have mercy and compassion for you now.
May your Soul cross-over and rest in peace.
May your family, relatives, and friends get closure.
May the Souls of Passengers of MH370 cross-over and rest in peace.
May all your family, relatives, and friends of MH370 get closure.
If you want to show anyone any Afterlife Signs, please go ahead now.

Thank you Angels Light-Truth-Love.

My Whisperings with Love Angel Brenda

NOTE #1: Ghosts tend to talk like it is happening – so they talk in present or continuous tense – not past tense. Ghost have no concept or perception of time and space. It’s almost like “time” repeats itself – like Ghosts are reliving their final day or parts of their lives.

I have just conducted a Ghost Crossover Ritual.
There are many other things I did which I did not reveal, therefore

My intention was very clear. I wanted Captain Zaharie to tell his story for himself and for others. I 6th Sensed that he would be confused by the real events and the voices of Ghosts of MH370 talking to him. So I had to separate the 2 conversations.

That part where Captain Zaharie turned on the intercom and announced to the passengers that they were about to land on the sea anytime now is NOT very clear to me – whether he actually said all that, or as a Ghost he wants to say and do all that action.

LOCATION of MH370 Landing  [update on 19 October 2017]
What I’m sure is Captain Zaharie flew pass Maldives, then he flew aimlessly without any airport destination – until the fuel ran out. That location is 1-2 hours from any airport. He did see the Sunrise but he did not indicate which direction was the Sun (closer behind or on his left side), that would have been a major clue.

It is possible that Captain Zaharie may have deviated SOUTH after Maldives and pass Diego Garcia, rather than flying SOUTH-WEST direction from the North of Sumatra to Maldives, and pass Seychelles. So along the MH70 Madagascar Arc was WHERE MH370 sank.

This location makes sense as the confirmed MH370 flaperon was found in Reunion Island which less than 1,000 km from the MH370 Arc Location.

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After more than 3 years of Captain Zaharie afterlife-visiting me once in a long while, I myself need to say my goodbye to him.

Captain Zaharie has suffered enough as tormented Ghost for more than 3½ years. Suffering from Karma happens to the Soul in the Ghost World and/or in Purgatory (The 5th Dimension).
I pray that the Soul of Captain Zaharie will cross-over soon.


[Update:  Captain Zaharie send his second Ensign Wasp Afterlife Sign to me 32 hours after I published this MH370 Part 2 article at 9:27 pm 17 October 2017 when I was buying some biscuits at a local Chinese grocery store – it was right in front of me on the glass counter top next to the cashier.  In my Ghost Crossover Ritual I asked Captain Zaharie and souls of the crew and passengers of MH370 to show anyone any Afterlife Signs. And Captain Zaharie did. Below is the video and photo proof of Captain Zaharie’s Second Afterlife Sign.



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Read my original article:
The Ghost of Captain Zaharie whispered WHERE, WHY & WHAT happened to MH370 (The real X-Files)

Read Top 12 FAQs on the MH370 articles  click here



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By Robrenda
(Twin Souls: Whisperer Robert Chaen & Love Angel Brenda)

Published on 16 October 2017.
Updated on 8 March 2018.

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