7 Psychic Senses

7 Psychic Senses

In spiritualism, psychic senses used by mental mediums are sometimes defined differently from in other paranormal fields. A medium is said to have psychic abilities but not all psychics function as mediums. The term clairvoyance, for instance, may be used by Spiritualists to include seeing spirits and visions instilled by spirits. The Parapsychological Association defines “clairvoyance” as information derived directly from an external physical source.

  • Clairvoyance or “clear seeing“, is the ability to see anything that is not physically present, such as objects, animals or people. This sight occurs “in the mind’s eye”. Some mediums say that this is their normal vision state. Others say that they must train their minds with such practices as meditation in order to achieve this ability, and that assistance from spiritual helpers is often necessary. Some clairvoyant mediums can see a spirit as though the spirit has a physical body. They see the bodily form as if it were physically present. Other mediums see the spirit in their mind’s eye, or it appears as a movie or a television programme or a still picture like a photograph in their mind.
  • Clairaudience or “clear hearing“, is usually defined as the ability to hear the voices or thoughts of spirits. Some mediums hear as though they are listening to a person talking to them on the outside of their head, as though the Spirit is next to or near to the medium, and other mediums hear the voices in their minds as a verbal thought.
  • Clairsentience or “clear sensing“, is the ability to have an impression of what a spirit wants to communicate, or to feel sensations instilled by a spirit.
  • Clairsentinence or “clear feeling” is a condition in which the medium takes on the ailments of a spirit, feeling the same physical problem which the spirit person had before death.
  • Clairalience or “clear smelling” is the ability to smell a spirit. For example, a medium may smell the pipe tobacco of a person who smoked during life.
  • Clairgustance or “clear tasting” is the ability to receive taste impressions from a spirit.
  • Claircognizance or “clear knowing“, is the ability to know something without receiving it through normal or psychic senses. It is a feeling of “just knowing”. Often, a medium will claim to have the feeling that a message or situation is “right” or “wrong.”

[source: wikipedia]

Robert’s View

My Soul Whispering/ Ghost Whispering are more Claircognizance or “clear knowing”. I’m actually glad that I don’t see, hear, or smell Ghosts, Angels


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An Honest Death: A Palliative Care Doctor’s Final Days

An Honest Death: A Palliative Care Doctor’s Final Days

Watch heart-touching original NHK World video on Masahiro Tanaka: 

It all began with an unusual request: “Could you film everything about me until I die?” Masahiro Tanaka was a palliative care doctor and Buddhist priest who was diagnosed with terminal cancer. He was an end-of-life specialist who helped thousands of patients die peacefully. Now he had to face his own impending death. The film crew set out to document an “ideal death”, but what they witnessed was quite different. This program offers an unflinchingly honest look at human nature at its most vulnerable.

“I flew to Hong Kong and rushed to see Brenda with the high hope of helping her fight for her life. But when I arrived at ICU Ruttonjee Hospital, she was in a coma. One and half hours later, the doctor came. He said they had done all they could have done for her.

I remember the doctor advising me and asking for my permission to DNR Brenda, my late wife if her heart fails – as it’s pointless to prolong her life for maybe just a few more minutes.

All her major organs i.e. kidney, lungs had failed or failing (except her heart and brain) from toxic contamination from a perforated intestines caused by Crohn’s Disease. She suffered from Crohn’s Disease for 19 years. She was one of the first Crohn’s Disease patients to be diagnosed in Hong Kong. She survived her first perforation of intestines in 1995 after being saved by a visiting British Chinese Surgeon; but the second time it was not detected until it was too late.

Brenda always wanted to die before me. That was our Soul Agreement. We agreed that if one of us were a “vegetable”, we will give permission to “pull the plug”. 

Seeing Brenda die helplessly over 23 hours 23 minutes on 23 December 2013 was the hardest ordeal and test of faith I ever had to go through. Read about “Facing the day of Brenda José’s death”: https://goo.gl/fDQjbj

Now it’s my Twin Souls Mission as a Soul Whisperer to help others crossover, help their families get closure, and maybe receive an Afterlife Sign from their loved ones. My guardian angel Brenda whispered to me on 15 February 2017 that she will be reincarnate 5 years after she crossed over. And we’ll find each other again.

I will find Brenda out of the 130 million babies born each year. I’ll recognize a little girl whom I’ll know it will be her.”
~ Whisperer Robert Chaen
Some quotes from the video:

  • Teacher means “to be born before”.
    ● Speaking was a way to confirm the value of his life.
    ● Nothing is lonelier than being ignored.
  • DNR = Do Not Resuscitate
  • Continuous Deep Sedation – sleep state, usually done with the patient has less than 2 weeks to live. The person passes away in their sleep. ‘Let me sleep when the pain becomes unbearable.”


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The 7 Dimensions of the Universe, Ghost World, Purgatory, Hell, The Afterlife & The Beforelife

The 7 Dimensions of the Universe, Limbo, Ghost World, Hell, The Afterlife & The Beforelife

2D / The Second Dimension
= Width and height

3D / The Third Dimension
= Width, height and depth (Space)

4D / The Fourth Dimension
= Space + Time = The ‘Known’ Physical Universe;

5D / The Fifth Dimension
= The 5th Dimension has 2 Worlds: Ghost World and Purgatory, Limbo (before going to Soul Universe).

Normally a person dies, the Soul goes from 4D to 6D-7D, and reincarnate.
There are 2 situations where the Soul is unable to go straight to the 6D-7D:
5.1)  Ghost World: A Ghost is a Soul that is very unsettled (e.g. gone through a suicide, violent death, fatal accident, murder), and is unable to go straight to the 6D-7D, so the soul hangs around in the Ghost World, the 5th Dimension.
Sometimes the Soul wants to say goodbye and hangs around (a few hours to a few years).

5.2)  Purgatory/ Hell: the Soul has too much bad Karma to settle in the next lifetimes (for example the human body has a limit to how much it can suffer bodily, mentally, emotionally, spiritually in one lifetime), the Soul may settle its bad Karma through all 5 subtle-angelic senses e.g. “seeing-hearing-feeling-smelling-tasting” through its subtle-angelic body (not a physical body) its bad deeds, sufferings.

This is the “Hell”, “Ghost World”, Inferno”, “Dante” that people refer to.
The Chinese refer to the 12 Levels of Hell, where a soul is tortured with the related crime e.g. lying will have their tongues cut, etc. The Chinese version of Hell is extremely dark, their belief in ghosts is very dark. Chinese even have one lunar month called “The Ghost Festival”.

That’s why Ghosts like Humans may emit bad ordors, uneasy feelings, fleeting images, eerie creepy sounds, bad taste in the tongue – which may be able to be “6th Sensed” by humans.

But these subtle sufferings are never like depicted in holy books i.e. “the eternal fires of Hell”. There is NO fires, cold, drowning, or any physical punishments in Limbo 5D.

We all know the human body can only stand the pain of fire for only less than 1 minute after that the human body will go into shock and faint. So the concept of an eternal fire that can torture a human is impossible, as the body dies and doesn’t feel a thing.

6D / The Sixth Dimension
= “The Afterlife”, Angelic Realm where Guardian Angels, ArchAngels stay, Messengers-Visitations-Afterlife Signs-Premonitions from your Crossed-over Loved Ones; Angelic activities; The Astral Plane, Paranormal Space
This is the “paradise”, “Heaven” which most people refer to.

7D / The Seventh Dimension
= “The Beforelife” (before a soul reincarnate), Soul Universe, Nirvana (state of nothingness), Moksha;
There is NO HUMAN ACTIVITY and NO KARMA in Soul Universe.

Q. What is the meaning of Crossed-over or RIP (Rest In Peace)
A. RIP is about a soul left the body from 4d to 6D or 7D, so the Soul may transition (not ‘move’ as it is not physical) between 6D & 7D, between The Afterlife and The Beforelife aka Soul Universe.

Q.  Where does Karma happens?
A. Return of Karma only exists when the soul is in a human body – in various forms of suffering, pain, hunger, poverty, heartaches, sorrow, regret, guilt, bitterness, loneliness, stress, etc.
The Return of Karma also exists in the 5th Dimension (in the form of “Hell”).
Karma does not exist in the 6th & 7th Dimensions.


7 Dimensions of The Universe


FAQs on The 7 Dimensions of the Universe

Q1.  Where is God in the 7 Dimensions?

A1.  Everywhere (omnipresent) or nowhere – as God is NOT limited or controlled by the 7 Dimensions: Space & Time (4D), Limbo-Ghost-Hell (5D), Angelic Realm-The Afterlife (6D), or Soul Universe-The Beforelife-Nirvana (7D)

Q2.  What are Channeled Spirits?
A2.  There are 4 Types of Channeled Spirits: 
1)  Good and Bad Possessing Ghosts: an unsettled Soul who has not yet crossed-over to 6D & 7D, but the Soul is not humanly aware of the Soul’s predicament. Just like there are good, bad, ugly & beautiful humans, there are good and bad ghosts. Some Ghosts try to possess the body of another soul. At rare times that a body can attract a multiple of Possessing Ghosts

2)  Channeled Good Entity or Angel
Example 1:  Angel Moroni enters Joseph Smith who established the Mormons and The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints (LDS Church).

3)  Channeled Fallen Angels Satan or Lucifer or Fallen Twin Souls
A fallen Angel or Twin Soul have gone from Light to Darkness.
Fallen Angels and Twin Souls have very important and specific roles to play such as:
● establish a Cult / New Religion.
● Fallen Angels and Fallen Twin Souls create a massive Religious Big Karmic Debt that affects especially regular teachers and students. The usually cult isolation from student’s family and friends, strict Discipline, religious policing, brainwashing, mind control, and harsh Lifestyle can be viewed as a form of punishment for return of bad karma of followers.  click here to read about 27 Big Karmic Debts and identity your Top 3 Big Karmic Debts
Example 1 of  Fallen Twin Souls: Founder Soul Shiva Baba who claims he is the supreme soul incarnates in the body of Brahma Baba and founded Brahma Kumaris Raja Yoga Meditation around 1936. In 1969 when Brahma Baba died, the Fallen Twin Souls Shiva Baba & Brahma Baba became the combined form of BapDada who then enters their second Chariot called Dadi Gulzar.  click more about The 101 Deceptive Faces of Brahma Kumaris Raja Yoga Meditation Cult
Example 2:  A fallen angel is influencing Abū Bakr al-Baghdadi who changed from a shy, unimpressive, and a religious scholar into the Leader of ISIS. His followers are paying their own very heavy Big Karmic Debt through joining ISIS.

4)  ALL Religious Founders have Twin or Triple Souls
Example 1: The Founder Soul (Buddha) enters the body of Prince Siddhārtha (Gautama).
Example 2: The Founder Soul (Christ, aka “God The Father) and an Angelic Soul (God The Holy Ghost), enters the Body of Jesus (“God The Son)

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Proof & Secrets from The Afterlife with The Love Angel Brenda – by Whisperer Robert Chaen

Proof & Secrets from The Afterlife with The Love Angel Brenda by Whisperer Robert Chaen

Introducing My Second eBook

This ebook is about unconditional love, truth, predestiny, the proof of afterlife, evidence of angelic afterlife signs and crossing-over of souls. It also restores hope and healing in grieving and letting go of departed loved ones. Afterlife stories, universal laws and secrets, and personal stories about being touched by a guardian angel, untold divine intervention stories will be shared about how 50 exchange students and my cousin were saved from MH370.

This ebook is about death & birth, good & evil, soul & body, and hope vs blind faith.
It will answer many of life’s biggest questions and mysteries about the afterlife, the soul, God, Angels, heaven & hell.


This is an afterlife ebook, not a religious ebook
Readers are advised to read this book with an open mind, with no preconceived notions and judgements on this ebook. After reading its entirety, readers can decide on which parts or life lessons to take away, and simply leave the rest behind. However, I am very sure there will be something here for everyone.

These words are originated from soul whispering with Brenda José, my guardian love angel, my departed Portuguese wife, and my Twin Soul. From here onwards, I’ll use the word “crossed-over” and not departed.

Communicating with the Departed OR letting the Departed RIP?

Communicating with the Dead is a highly controversial topic which many people have strong even ‘expert’ opinions about – yet they know nothing about the Afterlife.

The truth is it is all about Whispering & communicating with an Eternal Soul who never dies. Although a Soul may be Resting In Peace as a ‘seed/ egg’ with no human experiences or activities, the Soul can ‘Soul Travelinstantly to the Angelic Realm which exist in parallel with Earth & the Universe. From ‘The Other Side’ they can be ‘guardian angels at will’ to guide their loved ones and send Afterlife Signs.

Therefore, there is no question about ‘disturbing’ the soul and communicating with them. It’s no different from talking to a  Religious Founder.


Deciphering Brenda’s Code
It took me a little more than 3 years to decipher Brenda’s Code of what she is continuously trying to whisper to me (think of this as a spiritual, afterlife version of ‘The Da Vinci Code’); and to have the courage to write this ebook and what she wants to tell the world from the other side. I had many self-doubts. I questioned everything from a true skeptic point of view. I still struggle to connect the dots of Brenda’s Code on new unfolding discoveries.

Brenda and my story began on the day when Brenda crossed over at 5:23 pm, 23rd December 2013 at her death bed in Ruttonjee Hospital, Hong Kong.


Proofing to the Doubting Thomas
Two hours after she left her physical body, she produced her first irrefutable afterlife sign to me, the ‘doubting Thomas’, a corporate CEO and true skeptic – a Mark Six computer-generated lottery with her two soul numbers 7 & 11. You will read a lot more about 7 & 11s throughout this ebook. Brenda was born on 7 April 1962.


Hacking the Lottery Supercomputer: The 7 & 11 Mark Six Afterlife Sign
The First Irrefutable Proof of Afterlife from Brenda
(the scale and variety of irrefutable afterlife signs from Brenda is unheard of)

An investigative journalist once made me realize how powerful Brenda really is. It is absolutely impossible for a human being to access Mark Six, one of the world’s most secure gaming mainframe computers, and to generate 2 specific first consecutive numbers (7 & 11) out of 6 numbers with no numbers in between.

But Brenda did crack the impenetrable Mark Six computer to prove to me first, and then to the world that I am not imagining that she is whispering to me from the other side. Brenda will go on to show countless irrefutable afterlife signs (more in later chapters).


Brenda's Scale of Afterlife Signs Montage

Surrendering & My Promise made at Brenda’s Death Bed:
“I didn’t know what I signed up for”

In Brenda’s last 25 minutes of her physical life on her death bed, she made me promise her that I would surrender to her and God as an instrument tool. This intense conversation was fully documented as I Whatsapp my staff in Malaysia to post in my Facebook account Robert Chaen Changeu. (Check my Facebook on 23 December 2013).

But now there is a super-deep and strong calling to write this ebook, and later read some chapters of this ebook as a video or a podcase

The truth is I’ve been postponing writing this ebook for too long, but now I am told to start writing and publishing this ebook spontaneously probably daily as I go with the flow.


Directing Brenda’s Messages to You
This ebook will talk directly to you as there are messages here for you, if you are open and mindful enough to catch decipher Brenda’s Code and possible afterlife signs and messages from your crossed-over relative or a close friend. Maybe it’s time for you to let go of some loved one.


Writing Afterlife eBooks: The World Need to Know About The Afterlife:
“Write eBooks and the followers will come”,  Brenda whispered.

Brenda said my ebooks will help many people in many ways.
She whispered to me, “tell the world what they need to know about The Afterlife.”

I just want to share openly and freely what Brenda whispered to my soul during the last 3½ years and now as I write her soul whisperings.

I want to share with you the proof and secrets of the afterlife – whispered by my Love Angel Brenda.

Come join us on an incredible journey and experience with Brenda and I as this ebook unfolds day by day.

Photo credit: the feature picture is on Brenda Jose’s last facebook banner https://www.facebook.com/BrendaJoseChaen
As no one has access to her FB account, this beautiful “Twin Angels” picture will remain forever in cyberspace. Robert has since discovered many clues linking to the afterlife which she unconsciously left behind many years ago before she crossed over.


Introducing Whisperer Robert Chaen, The Host of Afterlife Channel
Robert Chaen is the CEO of a highly rated training, consulting, headhunting and events firm. Established since 1990, Robert’s clients include Fortune 500 corporations and top brands like Coca-Cola, Gap, Sheraton, and Nestle.

Robert and Brenda José were married in 1996. They were business partners and were co-coaches, a dynamic duo for 12 years. Robert who is a skeptic has been receiving irrefutable afterlife signs from Brenda since she “crossed-over” (passed on to the other side) on 23rd December 2013. This ongoing ebook is written from spontaneous afterlife whispering with Brenda whom he calls his Love Angel & Twin Soul.


Searching the Earth for Proof of the Afterlife
Researching for true afterlife stories and being touched by an Angel from readers:

If you have a great true story, video, picture, article about proof of afterlife, afterlife signs, visitations, dreams, premonitions, or being touched by Angel, email us at: AfterlifeWhisperer@gmail.com



Searching for Magazine & Channel Interviews
If you are a journalist or a Magazine/ TV Channel/ Radio station, and you would like arrange an interview with Robert Chaen, email us at: AfterlifeChanneler@gmail.com


CONTENT: Ebook 48 Chapters & Links

Note:  This second Afterlife eBook is writing-in-progress. Most chapters have links to the Parts in the first Afterlife eBook – view it as a preview to the second eBook.
All the latest updates and insights from whispering with The Love Angel Brenda will be revised in the second eBook.

Chapter : Searching for Magazine & Channel Interviews

Introduction Section:  
Introducing Whisperer Robert Chaen, The Host of Afterlife Channel
What Type of Whisperer is Robert Chaen?
Communicating with the ‘Dead’? Or is it really Communicating with an Eternal Soul-Spirit: to let the Departed RIP or to contact them?

Section A: Channeling The Love Angel Brenda by Whisperer Robert Chaen

Chapter 1:  Whisperings with The Love Angel Brenda
Chapter 2:  Writing Afterlife eBooks: The World Need to Know About The Afterlife
Chapter 3:  Extracting from Robert’s First Afterlife eBook   click here
Chapter 4:  Surrendering & Robert’s Promise made at Brenda’s Death Bed   click here
Chapter 5Channeling Brenda

Section B:  Exploring and Discovering The Secrets of The Afterlife Universe

Chapter 6Deciphering Brenda’s Code   click here
Chapter 7:  Proving beyond any doubt that Brenda is ‘The Drama Queen of Endless Afterlife Signs’
Chapter 8Hacking the Lottery Super-Computer   click here
Chapter 9:  Investigating The Unprecedented Scale & Variety of Irrefutable Afterlife Signs   click here
Chapter 10:  Identifying Top 7 Good Afterlife Signs from Brenda
Chapter 11:  Identifying Top 7 Bad Afterlife Signs from Brenda
Chapter 12:  Identifying Top 7 Divine Intervention from Love Angel Brenda
Chapter 13:  Identifying Top 7 Premonition  Signs of the Twin Souls Mission
Chapter 14:  Passing The 7 Tests of Faith of Twin Souls
Chapter 15
Sensing Afterlife Messages from Your Guardian Angels by going Beyond Hearing, Seeing, Feeling, Tasting, and Touching   click here
Chapter 16:  Unravelling the Twin Souls Mission & Connection   click here
Chapter 17:  Understanding the Differences between Soulmates, Twin Flames, & Twin Souls   click here
Chapter 18:  Understanding about Soul Agreements

Section C:  Recalling Twin Souls’ Beforelife

Chapter 19Traveling Back in Time to Remember Robert & Brenda Twin Souls Beforelife: The untold love story and the Legend of Mahsuri   click here

Chapter 20:  Recognizing The Soul Connections vs. Scientific Tests: I Origins (2014) Film Review    click here

Section D:  Interpreting Life Biggest Mysteries & Afterlife Signs

Chapter 20Answering Life’s Biggest Mysteries   click here
Chapter 21:   Speaking & Receiving Afterlife Signs from Your Guardian Angels   click here
Chapter 22:   Breaking The Guinness World Records of Afterlife Signs   click here

Section E:  Revealing The Triple Aircrashes of MH370, MH17 & AirAsia QZ8501

Chapter 23Believing Which Conspiracy Theory about MH370 vs. Brenda’s Sign   click here
Chapter 24Revealing The Truth of MH370   click here
Chapter 25Revealing the Untold Divine Intervention MH370 Story   click here
Chapter 26:  Meeting a Ukrainian Stranger a Day after MH370 Disappeared Foretold MH17 Air crash 130 days later   click here
Chapter 27:  Sensing The Premonition of a Third Malaysian Air Crash of QZ8501

Section F:  Settling Karma & Facing Fox Seducers

Chapter 28:   Painting the 50 Shades of Karma
Chapter 29Identifying Your Top 3 Karmic Debts from The 26 Big Karmic Debts List  click here   
Chapter 30Freeing from Robert’s Top 3 Karmic Debts   click here
Chapter 31Detecting The Sly Characteristics of a Daji Fox Seducer   click here
Chapter 32Facing Your Inner & Outer Fox Seducer & Paying Its Karmic Debt   click here
Chapter 33Understanding Abortion is Karma (Afterlife Secret)
Chapter :   Exposing Religious CULTS: Brahma Kumaris Spiritual University & Raja Yoga Centres   click here

Section G:  Grieving & Symbolic Belongings

Chapter 34Grieving: The 17 Phases   click here
Chapter 35:   Performing the Crossover Ritual & Saying The Crossover Prayer   click here

Attracting Your Own Karmic & Symbolic Belongings: How I attracted My own Sword from 2,300 years ago      click here

Chapter: Public Plea: Help Find Brenda’s Heart Rings      click here
Chapter : Making Sense of Brenda’s Direct Message to You

Section H:   Applying The Secrets of the Afterlife:  It’s time for your Goal Action Plan

Chapter :  Using The Secrets of The Afterlife
Chapter Settling Your Top 3 Karmic Debts   click here
Chapter  :  Practicing 5 Simple 7 Minute Meditations daily that will Transform Your Life
Chapter : Practicing Close-Eye & Open-Eye Meditation
Chapter  : Using the Power of Numerology  
click here
Chapter:  Using the Power of Symbolism    
click here
Chapter  : Handling Your Sex, Money & Power Issues
Chapter:  Confessing & Owning Your Dark Secrets    
click here
Chapter   : Practicing Protection & Guidance Prayer
Chapter  : Building a simple Personal Altar & Sacred Sanctuary
Chapter :  Asking the same old FAQ


The Differences between Whisperer Robert Chaen’s Second Afterlife Ebook and First Afterlife Ebook:
Although there are many chapters in the second ebook that are extracted from the original content from parts of the first ebook, here are listing of New Sections not found in the first ebook:

●  Searching for Magazine & Channel Interviews
●  Researching for true afterlife stories and being touched by an Angel from readers
●  Healing the Spirit, Soul, Mind & Body
●  Applying The Secrets of the Afterlife:  It’s time for your Goal Action Plan
●  Connecting the Dots Symbolism Exercises



Proof & Secrets from The Afterlife with The Love Angel Brenda
The Second Afterlife eBook by Whisperer Robert Chaen

Proof & Secrets of The Afterlife with The Love Angel Brenda by Whisperer Robert Chaen

By Whisperer Robert Chaen with The Love Angel Brenda
Published on 3 July 2017.
Updated on 29 August 2017.
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My Last Time Together with SunDance, My Sweetie Golden Retriever

Today I bumped into Vet Dr. Steven Yoon of Healing Pets Animal Clinic and his lovely wife at a Japanese restaurant. After I finished lunch, I walked over to share with them that Brenda my wife had crossed-over 3+ years ago. They were shocked and had wondered about Brenda previously.

Dr. Steven shared his experience the day in 2012 when SunDance, our darling Golden Retriever and my company ChangeU‘s Mascot was euthanized. SunDance was extremely weak, very skinny, and dying from a failing heart and old age (13 years). In his last 2 weeks he could not eat properly or walk down stairs to his normal toilet area.

SunDance could not move or lift his head as I pat and hug him in our last time together. My tears just rolled down over his aged white face. There was no familiar wagging, no love licking – just hardly a liveless blank stare.

Dr. Steven said Brenda hugged SunDance as he did what he had to do. SunDance died in her arms.

Dr. Steven remembered very well her words were “Life is short.” She apparently did not cry at that moment.

I, on other hand, sobbed controllably the day before when I said my last goodbye to SunDance. I could not bear to see SunDance die so I chose not to be there.

SunDance came a famous Canadian-Hong Kong Champion lineage called Bogey-Par-Birdie. He brought endless joy like an angel but he was a really naughty, hyper “devil” in his first 1.5 years.

He was comically bullied by bossy-boots Chupa Chups, our English Bulldog from Hungary. Cute Chupa Chups died from complications of choking in phlegm from a very restricted throat a year earlier in 2011. She was only 2 years young.

I was so heart-broken that I did not get another pet doggie.

SunDance, Chupa Chups run free!

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Published on 24 May 2017.

IS HEAVEN HALAL?” [WARNING: This is a Non-Halal Satire] [Twin Souls Part 90]

[WARNING: This is a Non-Halal Satire]
[Twin Souls Part 90]

If you have no sense of humor or a religious bigot, please don’t read pass this! (second warning, your faith will be forever shaken haha).

If 3/4 of the Earthlings found out that Heaven is actually Halal, I think half will rather go to HELL.

Q. What IF you found out that Heaven is NON-Halal, will it be your biggest upset of all time and you refuse to go to Heaven (just saying)?”

Q. WHAT IF as a dead Jihadist, you found out that the 72 Virgins waiting in Heaven are non-halal Christians?
Is it the same 72 Eternal Virgins as promised by a Holy Book (it implies the oldest profession is in Heaven). Is there an expiry date for any of these ageless Virgins?
Is there any way a Jihadist can check if she is still a Virgin? What is she is frigid?
If the Jihadist was a female, who are these 72 Male Virgins (what is his race, religion, age; or is there no such heavenly reward as a female jihadist?)
What IF the Jihadist was gay, and wanted…
What if you didn’t like any of the Virgins?
There is no guarantee that the 72 Virgins are beautiful, is there?
What if all the Virgins are on annual leave, and you are left with some sex toys…
Who in Heaven selected the 72 Willing Virgins, anyways?
Do these Virgins have a choice, or it’s God’s Will? Bismillah.

We really should wonder about such thoughts, especially if you are a religious fanatic.

This is a FACT: more than 99% people (as many as there are humans that many Religions there are on Earth) will be very upset or wrong when they get to Heaven. Unless… ALL Religions are somewhat WRONG. 

Maybe, just maybe in The Secret Afterlife… there are NO HUMAN EXPERIENCES…
no sex, no virgins, no eating, no sickness, no jobs, no war, no death, no birth, no aging, no iPhone, no cars, no cigarettes, no food, no water, no internet, no money, no power, no corruption, no Karma, no punishment, no 10 Commandments, no human rewards, no wars, no politics, no police, no courts, no human sounds, no human sight, no music, no DJ/VJ, no gravity, no movement, no travelling, no weather, no natural or human disasters, no suffering, no time, no measurement, no ghosts, no angels…
no God as humans commonly understand, no race, no Heaven…

no Hell below us, no religion too (John Lennon knew something)…

NOTHINGNESS & Oneness connection with all life, planets, alien life forms
because we don’t have a HUMAN BODY to experience Human Experiences in the secret Afterlife

In the Afterlife, you are in Seed stage waiting for your Reincarnation according to your Soul’s total Karma.

Think about it.


From Twin Souls Whispering between The Love Angel Brenda & Whisperer Robert Chaen. The Love Angel Brenda has been soul whispering to Robert 25 minutes before she crossed-over on 23 December 2013.

Twin Souls Whisperings with Brenda

Published on 12 February 2017.
Updated on 8 April 2017.

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A Tale of Two Wives Same Date Deaths [Twin Souls Part 89]

This is a true story of the PREDESTINY of 2 Wives who died on the same day December 23 – 3 years apart. And how the 2 wives got their husbands to carry on their LEGACIES.
Bring out your tissues.

On Christmas Eve 2016, I received a Whatsapp message from C.E. Teoh, a trainer associate of mine, about his family being involved in a car ACCIDENT at around Slim River, on their way to his hometown Penang for his father-in-law’s birthday celebration – no different from any other year.

He wrote his beloved wife Siew See was called home to be with God. I was shocked!

The car had a left side tyre exploded! Although he was calm and held the steering wheel tight, the Peugeot unexpectedly spun clockwise 180⁰ and slammed into the road divider! Teoh surreally looked at his motionless wife Siew See sitting in front, next to him.

He looked back at his son Jonathan sitting on the left side screaming in pain from a crushed left foot. But Jonathan was more concern about his mum.

Teoh’s daughter Abigail sitting behind whispered to her dad to stay calm and was a voice of guidance in an extreme crisis. Passerbys helped to call the Ambulance. Siew See had no pulse. She died on the spot.

His son Jonathan lost 4 left foot toes (except the pinky toe). He was in Assunta Hospital after a successful operation. His daughter Abigail, maid, and himself were not hurt.

Jonathan, a Hebrew name means “Gracious Gift of God” is also the same name of the only Nephew in my family. In Hebrew the meaning of the name Abigail is: Father rejoiced, or father’s joy. Gives joy. The intelligent, beautiful Abigail was Old Testament King David’s third wife, described as ‘good in discretion and beautiful in form.’

I’m a Soul Whisperer. This means I pray for Souls to cross-over to The Secret Afterlife peacefully before and after death, and not become a “ghost” (a soul which hangs around because of some unsettled Karma). I pray to crossed-over souls to give their close ones reassuring Afterlife Signs which individuals can relate to. I also counsel, help relatives grieve and move on in life.

I myself had witnessed my wife of 17 years Brenda José died over a period of 23 hours 23 minutes on 23 December 2013, and crossover exactly at 5:23 pm. It was THE hardest, longest, the most agonizing, and the most helpless experience in my life.

Many people wish they will be at their loved ones’ side at the time of passing over. But let me tell you it will be one of the toughest thing to go through, if it ever happens.

I had previously wished her dying was not so long and agonizing. I wished her death was quick. But when I heard Teoh’s story, I now accept my destiny and Brenda’s fate.

So, on the third memorial anniversary of Brenda, when a friend of mine lost his wife on the same date it brought me to tears instantly as it triggered my own traumatic memory of that fateful day 3 years ago. One never forget such memories.

A loss of a loved one is just indescribable to anyone who never experienced it.

I remember one of my Papillon (butterfly) Personal Effectiveness graduates told me get a hold of myself during my roller coaster emotional Eulogy at Brenda Jose’s Memorial on 11 January 2014. He simply had NO idea of the deep soul-felt feelings.

I sensed he felt real awkward to see a man cry publicly, and he might even be protecting me from further public embarrassment. Others just hug me which was a better way of communication. And then there were countless close friends who ABANDON me and did not attend the memorial out of awkwardness – they just did not know how to relate to me or their own loss of Brenda.

Another person, who is a close friend, business associate, as well as a client challenged and grilled me for 2 hours half a year ago and accused me for not letting go of Brenda as I regularly talked, wrote, and shared a lot about Brenda and “whisperings” from the Other Side.

Let go. Let God.
I let go of massive guilt that I did not fulfill my promise to her to bring her back from Hong Kong. I let Brenda go at her death bed. I surrendered to God first , and then I surrendered to her – as she said that she would not go until I did that. 3 minutes after I surrendered she left at 5:23 pm.

Brenda’s last 3 words: “I drama queen!”. The “angelic form” of Brenda is definitely super-dramatic with irrefutable Afterlife Signs, wacky sense of humor, wise and knowledgeable beyond human understanding. Read about my whisperings with Brenda in her last 25 minutes.

A good friend of mine David, a famous editor, who was deeply heart-broken when his wife died from illness. He shared a story about a famous writer I think it was Mark Twain or Hans Christian Andersen who famously replied when he was frequently asked why he had not let go of his wife: “No! I would not let go of my wife! She always with me!” Actually he had let her wife go, but her memory stayed with him forever, he talked a lot about her, and he yearn to be with her in the Afterlife.

Teoh shared he still have not slept in his Master Bedroom after 1.5 months as a room or objects are triggers of fresh memories. You may ask “what’s the matter?”. I can relate to that as I too am reluctant to do business in Hong Kong as everywhere I go in Hong Kong I have some strong memories of being with Brenda in those favorite places. Now after 3 years I feel I’m ready to claim back my power and my original business in Hong Kong.

It took me 2 years after her crossing-over to give away Brenda’s high end clothes to a CSR flea market. And nearly 3 years to clear her 40+ boxes she left with me, and give to charity.

Brenda died from Crohn’s Disease, an incurable digestive disease that can cause inflammation and perforation of large intestines, toxicating and damaging all internal organs.

I quickly wrote back that I was in tears, and I was praying for him and his family. I wrote that I believed his wife Siew See will be his guardian angel as Brenda is my guardian angel guiding, protecting and alerting me.

I suggested that he used Facebook as a Funeral Event Page. Teoh wrote back that his family was rushing to place an obituary ad for the next day in a local English newspaper. His family is of the opinion there would be too many questions to take. Both his brother-in-law posted on his FB and his wife’s FB wall.

I wrote that he was right because of the shock and initial denial nearly all friends and relatives will bombard him with questions and more questions as they want a “CNN Live” updates on the unfolding situation.

C.E. Teoh & Robert Chaen on 5 February 2017 – CNY Day 9 Brunch.

I suggested a few solutions for his clear decision-making:

1) Facebook has the most direct reach of news to friends and relatives than mainstream newspapers.
2) Put a clause in caps like:
3) Most updates will be in this FB page.
4) Use this as a Tribute and Obituary page for relatives and friends to post their condolences, tributes, and comments.

Hopefully, with this story our readers, relatives and friends of Teoh, Siew See, me, and Brenda may get a glimpse of what Teoh, his family and I went through. You ask us to stay STRONG, we thank you for that. We are strong, but we are still humans. You may have no idea what’s like to be there…

I believe one can be strong if ever a crisis happens.

Now CE Teoh and Robert Chaen are exploring ways they can collaborate in ChangeU International (www.ChangeU.co).


A GRIEVING often goes through any of these 14+ Phases in a Roller-Coaster ride of Emotions:
Anger at God (“Why me, why the victim?”), life, at close ones
Abandonment and loneliness from close friends and relatives.
“Nobody” seems to understand what you are going through. People feel awkward and dismiss your raw public feelings.
Hurt by insensitive people (Brenda’s sister-in-law’s sister accused me of being a conman, and questioned why I was there at her death bed! The temptation is give them hell but letting go is so much harder.)
Massive guilt.
Ranting to keep one’s sanity (I find blogging really helps me to heal).
Paralysis and Inertia to do anything.
Not wanting to look at objects or be at certain places or rooms as they are memory reminders of missing that someone special.
You yearn to be with the departed soul, and may want to give up living as you find “no meaning” to continue to live. You become insidious, reckless, and you don’t care if you die .
You want a reassuring Afterlife Sign from the departed soul.
You start Talking to the Departed (and the soul “talks” back from The Other Side, and only you KNOW it’s him or her).
Depression, eating for relief and escape.
You want the Truth and seek Unconditional Love. Liars and hypocrites piss you off the most.
Petty things don’t matter much to you.
You need to get psychological help and support from your Church/ Temple/ Mosque/ Society.


Click for a sample template of Brenda’s Obituary-Tribute-Condolences Page.

One thing Andrew, my brother who is a Medical Doctor, did that was very beneficial when I arrived at Hong Kong International Airport from Kuala Lumpur was to get me straight into a normal functional routine as we took a slow bus back to his place.

I was like a shell-shocked walking zombie who had a sleepless night rushing to take the first flight out to Hong Kong to see Brenda. I was highly irritated with my brother for such mundane house rules and meaningless house instructions.

But you know what, normal routines like eating, showering, chatting, and even sleeping grounded me and prevented me from going to depression, despair, and massive guilt. It forced me to be physically, emotionally, mentally, and spiritually FUNCTIONAL which is the most useful thing in such extreme personal crisis.

In hindsight, I thanked my brother for this and that Brenda could hear me even when she was in a coma, as I whispered last FB and Whatsapp messages from her close friends, relatives, and graduates from all over the world.

Hero-CEO Whisperer Robert Chaen is the CEO of ChangeU.co.



From Twin Souls Whispering between Whisperer Robert Chaen & The Love Angel Brenda
Brenda communicated with Robert in her last 25 minutes, and showed him an irrefutable 7-11 Afterlife Sign 2 hours after she crossed-over. Since crossing-over in 23 December 2013, Brenda continues to send countless afterlife signs, and whispers Secrets from The Other Side.

Twin Souls Whisperings with Brenda
This is the last “forever” FB banner picture in Brenda Jose’s fb page.

Published on 12 March 2017.

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