“Modus Operandi of Religious Cults and Large Group Awareness Trainings” by Robert Chaen.  Speaker at Int’l Cultic Studies Assoc 2018 Annual Conference

“Modus Operandi of Religious Cults and Large Group Awareness Trainings” by Robert Chaen.  Speaker at Int’l Cultic Studies Assoc 2018 Annual Conference

Robert Chaen will be a Speaker in 2 sessions at 2018 Annual International Conference
International Cultic Studies Association – in Philadelphia, USA on July 5-7, 2018:

1)  “Modus Operandi of Religious Cults and Large Group Awareness Trainings” by Robert Chaen

2)  Family Workshop II: Understanding Group Involvement Through the Lens of Culture (Robert Chaen; Nitai Joeph; Joseph Kelly; Patrick Ryan; Joseph Szimhart; Doni Whitsett)


“Modus Operandi of Religious Cults and Large Group Awareness Training”
by Robert Chaen

Talk Outline:
My experience coaching-counselling-mentoring Youth – which is the 2018 ICSA Theme.

3 Biggest Youth Problems:
1. Sexual harassment, drugs-alcohol-internet addictions
2. Jihadists (20,000+ foreigner youths have joined ISIS), extremist, racist cults
3. Mental illnesses.

5 Youth Solutions:
1. Entrepreneurship
2. Learning
3. Charity
4. Mental Health
5. All Creative Arts forms

I believe the best way to solve the 3 biggest Youth problems is to focus Youths’ interest on positive activities such as all creative arts, learning, charity, entrepreneurship and mental health awareness – and shift their focus away from drugs, alcohol, gaming, internet addictions, jihadist cults and religious fascism and extremism.

The Same Modus Operandi of Religious Cults and Large Group Awareness Training: 
The Cult Bait
(free food, talks)

The Cult Kill
(stereotyping the degree to push the follower)

The Cult Slavery
(long-term strictness, daily brainwashing), including some case studies

In my 2 sessions I’ll be briefly sharing my personal stories as the World’s Second Chinese Religious Cult Leader with Brahma Kumaris (aka BKs), and as a ‘Course Junkie’ and Asian Pioneer Promoter of Large Group Awareness Training (LGAT).

I was an Ex-Brahma Kumaris (1979-1989), World’s First Chinese BK (with my brother, Tom, and his ex-wife Sister Maureen Chen), and Co-Founder of Brahma Kumaris Malaysia (founded in 1981). BKs have more than 825,000 regular students, with over 8,500 centres in 100 countries (figures circa 2008), and is a registered United Nations NGO.

My expert summary prognosis is Brahma Kumaris is a dangerous cult. BK’s god Shiva Baba is obsessed with extremely weird, delusional ideologies of sex and celibacy such as BKs believe 5,000 years ago all humans and Earth were perfect and all perfect living beings, lions, and lambs reproduce without sex for 2,500 years – here on Earth.

Shiva Baba brainwashes BKs in daily ‘Murli’ classes and ultra-strict ‘Shrimat’ principles not to have sex or children as he predicted it will be The End of The World soon by 2036 – resulting in silent separations and massive marriage failure cover-ups. I have helped and advised many families of BKs in Cult Mediation and through my Social Media Cult Alert, Facebook public groups, and YouTube channels.

I will share my connection with Founders of ‘Hard-Selling & Enrolling’ LGAT groups such as the late Alexander Everett (‘The Father of Human Potential Movement’), Werner Erhard (Founder of EST, Erhard Seminar Training which later became Landmark Forum), Robert White (Founder of Life Dynamics), Chris Gentry (Founder of AsiaWorks, one of the largest LGAT in S.E. Asia, and Ex-Life Dynamics Coach); and softer and more empowering LGAT groups like Chris King of Wings Seminars.

I have listed Brahma Kumaris World Spiritual University (BKWSU) under the Religious Cult Category, and the above groups under LGAT Category in our Saving 72 Virgins Top Cult List 2018I founded Saving 72 Virgins Platform in 2017.



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Watch my Video on My CULT Confession: Landmark, Asiaworks, Lifespring & other LGAT & Charismatic Cults

I’ve joined the International Cultic Studies Association, and now have access to Top International Cult Experts. This will be a steep learning curve for me in this new field of Cult Mediation. I’m very sure many of my Cult videos and articles will need professional fine-tuning, use more effective strategies and best practices which will get best results in returning Cult Members back to their families and friends.

My purpose in role in Cult Mediation is to touch a wider social media audience awareness, rather than individual 1-on-1 cult mediation services consulting. Although my best learning opportunities and practice is likely to be more involved in 1-on-1 sessions and talking with families of Cult Members and Ex-Cult Members.



By Whisperer Robert Chaen
Reality TV Host of Saving 72 Virgins, and Cult Expert Keynote Speaker

Published on 23 January 2018.
Updated on 24 January 2018.

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Saving & Returning Your Brahma Kumaris Cult Loved Ones Back to Your Family

Saving & Returning Your Brahma Kumaris Cult Loved Ones Back to Your Family

Hi my BK Cult Intervention Team has created a Facebook group that aims to be a doomsday cult awareness platform:
1) To return BK loved ones back to their families.

2)  To save BKs from failed marriages, careers, depression, and no life because of blindly following extremely weird, crazy beliefs such as false hopes of a 2,500 years of golden age and a silver age when there will be NO vices, no crimes, no police, no courts, no military, no wars, no sex (golden age viceless deity-like humans reproduce through yoga power), no carnivores (lions, all animals and insects are vegetarian), no accidents, no suffering, no pain, and no sickness HERE ON EARTH… and this history repeats itself every 5,000 years IDENTICALLY.

3)  To return BKs back to NORMAL living rather than living with the false belief that the world will end anytime and coerced by BK Seniors into extreme CULT disciples like daily brainwashing Murli classes, no food cooked by non-BK mothers, and isolation from lokik (physical) families and friends.

Brahma Kumaris CULT (open public facebook group): click to join >> https://goo.gl/R88BNB

BKC is an insightful BK doomsday cult awareness platform for Members to introduce BKs to the truth, to prove Shiva Baba’s doomsday teachings are absolutely false so that BKs can be saved and have a Wake-Up Call to realize the massive damage done: failed marriages, friendships, studies, loss of ambition, careers, money and property surrendered to the fake god Shiva Baba.

Ex-BKs are encouraged to SHARE YOUR EX-BK STORY so that more BKs will realize the truth and help stop the BK Cult CANCER from spreading further massive damage to marriages and families through BK cult isolating Shrimat (instructions), doomsday fearmongering, surrendering of money, property, studies & career, and life-defeating, extremely strict Maryadas (disciplines and penances).

Warmest regards, Whisperer Robert Chaen.
Reality TV Host of Afterlife Channel, Saving 72 Virgins, and International Cult Expert Keynote Speaker.
Ex-BK (1979-1989), World’s First Chinese BK (with his brother, Tom; and Sister Maureen Chen who is still a top BK), Co-Founder of Brahma Kumaris Malaysia (founded in 1981).



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A few minutes after I completed creating the 2 Facebook Groups, I received a beautiful Butterfly Afterlife Sign from Brenda, my late wife and Twin Soul. She had been sending me countless Afterlife Signs since the evening she crossed over.

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Brenda’s Butterfly Afterlife Sign


This is the first time ever I received a Butterfly Afterlife Sign INSIDE my house as I tend to shut all windows. But in this new place first time I have a Balcony so there will be more Brenda’s Afterlife Signs in the future.

Butterfly is symbolic of transformation, so Brenda is reassuring me that my transformation  and courage will help many Brahma Kumaris, Ex-BKs, their Families & Friends.

I’ve been asking Brenda my Guardian Angel for guidance and clarity as I’m up against a powerful Brahma Kumaris Raja Yoga Meditation group (aka as BKs) who claims to have more than 825,000 regular students, with over 8,500 centres in 100 countries (figures circa 2008). Since I posted my first YouTube video on My CULT Confession: Brahma Kumaris & Raja Yoga Centres are a Dark Cult Part 1 on 28 August 2017, I had been receiving hate messages from most likely BKs trying to bully and silence me.

After posting this video on BKs, many families of BKs in USA, Canada, and around the world have approached me and my Cult Mediation Experts for help. Many of these BK cult mediation cases are very sad and yet BKs are totally blind about the bad karma and failed marriages they are creating.

Google “Brahma Kumaris Cult” and you’ll find countless stories of serious damage, breaking up of families, marriages, relationships, students giving up studies because they have been advised it’s the end to the world anytime soon (BK is definitely a classic doomsday cult).

Join our Facebook Groups and get cult mediation support as we join together to RETURN your loved ones back to your families who truly care and love them; and more importantly back to living a normal FULL life of possibilities – and not being a renunciate, a recluse isolated from society, and waiting hopelessly for world destruction and a fake promised golden age which everyone else can clearly see it’s never coming.

Yes, now you CAN SAVE your LOVED ones from Brahma Kumaris Raja Yoga Meditation and other Cults like Scientology, Transcendental Meditation. There’s real HOPE.



¬ Whisperer Robert Chaen, The Reality TV Host of Afterlife Channel, Saving 72 Virgins, Purple Army Youth CSR, Robrenda, and Cult Expert Keynote Speaker.
Ex-BK (1979-1989), World’s First Chinese BK (with his brother, Tom; and Sister Maureen Chen who is still a top BK), Co-Founder of Brahma Kumaris Malaysia (founded in 1981).



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Why I Joined & Left Brahma Kumaris Raja Yoga Meditation CULT (2nd Chinese BK) Part 2

Why I Joined & Left Brahma Kumaris Raja Yoga Meditation CULT (2nd Chinese BK) Part 2
(My Cult Confession Story and my Wonderful Experiences in my First Years in BK as the World’s Second Chinese BK)

Written by Whisperer Robert Chaen
Ex-BK (1979-1989), World’s First Chinese BK (with his brother, Tom; and Sister Maureen Chen who is still a top BK), Co-Founder of Brahma Kumaris Malaysia (founded in 1981)

My Mum disowned us!
We went to see my Mum in Ipoh before we opened the first centre. The concerned Singapore meeting a month earlier turned bad as my Mum did a reverse psychology on us by disowning Tom & I. She squarely blamed Tom for getting me to join BK.

Tom & I went to Kuala Lumpur with only 2 suitcases and all our life savings. We stayed in a cheap hotel in Brickfields – it was a brothel. 1 week later we opened the first Malaysian Raja Yoga Centre on 1 May 1991 in 4 Jalan Taban 1, Bangsar because Bangsar used have many Indians whom we thought would be more receptive to Bapdada’s teachings since most of Raja Yoga knowledge is linked to Hinduism albeit with massive twists; the second centre is the current main centre in 10 Lorong Maarof, Bangsar, Kuala Lumpur.

The hardest item to get for the first RYM Centre was the gadi from where daily Murlis classes are given. It had to be custom-made with the wooden frame platform and custom-made thick but hard cushion foam. The second item to be made was the Baba’s Donation Box with lock and key.

In the second Bangsar Centre I came up with the idea of Thought of The Day (TOTD) Whiteboard in front of the centre gate pillars. I would select the key point from the Murli which is not BK-heavy but modify it to be easily be related to the general public. As the second Bangsar Centre was in Lorong Maarof a very busy main road, cars were reputed to have slowed down to read the TOTD.

I came up with many RYM Centre SOPs (Standard Operational Procedures) like a Professional COO.

You can read more of my early years of BK service in Doomsday CULT Confession: Brahma Kumaris World Spiritual University & Raja Yoga Centres are a Dangerous Cult


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Dadi Gulzar (Hirdaya Mohini), Dadi Janki (age 101) and Dadi Ratan Mohini who are the only 3 living Dadis left. When Dadi Gulzar dies, its Game Over for Bapdada, this Fallen Twin Souls must then go Limbo or Hell (The 5th Dimension) to suffer the Return of their massive Bad Karmic Debt. Then Shiva Baba and Brahma Baba must incarnate as human souls (not supreme soul) and pay the rest of their Bad Karma.

I gave my 10 best years of my youth and service.
I didn’t get paid any salary like most BK Teachers.
I willingly gave half of all my income.
Now I’ve paid fully my Big Religious Karmic Debt.

Like most Ex-BKs, we are much happier and freer now that we moved on from a mind-controlling Cult.

The rude wake up call is this service to ‘God’ is but a Big Religious Karmic Debt one had to pay for past Karma  (read more click here).

Winter is coming to the Brahma Kumaris

●  The moment Dadi Gulzar dies, it’s Karmic Game Over for the Fallen Twin Souls Bapdada (there is no Third Chariot) GG!
●  There will be no Third Chariot, don’t fool yourself.
You know BKs have been warned about this by Bapdada since 1986.
There will be no long queue from Abu Road Train Station to Mt. Abu Madhuban when Bapdada go.

●  Madhuban, BKWSU and Raja Yoga Centres have all reached the very Apex of its ‘Golden Age’ of Expansion – it’s now downhill all the way to its own “Iron Age of Irrelevancy” and demise.

Some people have obviously commented that I have an axe to grind or I’m bitter about BKs
Nothing is further than the truth.
Yes, sometimes I get angry and outraged by the delusional deceptions and lies of Bapdada, the manipulative brainwashing, and the massive break up of countless of marriages, relationships and friendships – BUT, I’m not bitter.

I don’t minced my words.
Yes, I’m a Badass Alpha when it comes to light, truth, and love, and defending the underdog, justice, and freedom, but I’m not nasty, bigoted, dictator, or a hypocrite.
I’m badass in giving back.
I’m open to constructive feedback.
My staff, graduates, clients and friends know where I come from.
On the other hand, readers and viewers sometimes miss the point and take things out of context.

Talk to families and friends of BKs and you’ll hear horror stories of heartbreak, marriage failures, children and family-building stopped, careers given up, BKs brainwashed to willingly give up assets and money surrendered to a Doomsday Cult.

Isn’t it much more blissful to simply let BKs to live in their delusional world that they will be perfect human-deities who will rule a perfect Earth for 2,500 years.
I had left BKs 28 years ago.
I have long ago moved on and rebuild my life.

The truth is many Ex-BKs I talked to would rather not discuss about BKs, and are happier to have moved on. They don’t want anything to do with BKs. They want to forget about their good and bad BK experiences.

Therefore, you will find that our BK YouTube Videos are bombarded by BKs’ defensive comments, more than supporters. Don’t forget there are 825,000 regular BK students who will defend their Cult.

There are also many Ex-BKs who actively support and help other BKs to get out the Toxic Brainwashing environment of BKs. Many of these active Ex-BKs do not want to be identified (some out of fear of Cult Retaliation) – as Shiva Baba has cursed BK Apostates as ‘lowest of low, worst than the worse Sudras-Slaves’). But I see the trend of more Ex-BKs speaking up publicly.

This Ex-BK Cult Movement is indirectly inspired by the “#MeToo” Sexual Harassment Movement which became TIME’s Persons of The Year 2017 which countless sexual harassment victims having the courage to reveal themselves and speak out.

I have healed my soul from the abuse from BKs, and the power control freak of the Regional Director.
And I have done good to redeem myself by doing much CSR, charity work, giving countless scholarships to my workshops, and giving back to society through my businesses.

Why do Muslim Apostates like Ayaan Hirsi Ali, Nonie Darwish, Nabeel Qureshi  Speak Up Against Radical Islam, or any Apostate like Katie Holmes (ex-wife of Tom Cruise, a Scientologist Cult follower) speak up against a Cult?
1)  Because it is the RIGHT thing to do – NOT because Apostates are bitter and have an axe to grind.

2)  Because Apostates offer a truthful Check & Balance on their dangerous ex-Religion or ex-Cult – not because they are vengeful and have nothing better to do.
3)  Because they don’t want others to suffer the heavy Karma, punishment, nightmare, hellish conditions they suffered – you should admire and support them as they are willing to speak the inconvenient TRUTH and risk persecution unlike many Ex-Cultists who dare not speak up for fear of backlash and ostracizing.
4)  Because they want to educate the public who is not aware how dangerous Doomsday Cults and Extremist Religions and how much they can damage the society – not because they are indifferent like the silent majority citizens when their fascist army massacred their own people or executed a racist genocide.


I just feel sad whenever I hear a story of a family broken up or divorced because of BK’s strict Maryadas. When I wrote and spoke about the exposé of BKs as a Dark & dangerous Cult (part 1) on 27 August 2017, I didn’t expect much response.

I wrote my Part 2 where I go head to head with Shiva Baba’s Cornerstone FAKE knowledge Copied and Twisted from Hindu scriptures: Brahma Kumaris Cult have a FAKE GOD Raja Yoga Meditation is FAKE click here

Then I wrote the third article about The 101 Deceptive Faces of Brahma Kumaris Raja Yoga Meditation Cult click here


But my bold Exposing BK Cult YouTube videos are gaining traction. Suddenly there is One Voice singing in the Darkness around the BK Cult World. BK families are contacting me from all over the world and desperately seeking for my advice.

For me, if I can help Save a Lost BK Sheep, and Return the BK back to his/her beloved Family & Friends, I’m most happy and fulfilled.
The joy of saving a Lost Brahma Kumaris Sheep is enough inspiration and fulfillment for me to face all the fierce hostility and hatred from BKs.

BKs can’t handle the truth.
They become very defensive when you confront them on their delusional beliefs with facts.
When there are massive delusional beliefs like BKs, the Master needs massive daily brainwashing (Murli classes), and an army of Cult Leader Control to mind-control their flock of BK sheep to follow blindly.

I’ve written some action plans one can do: How to Escape a Cult and Win a Debate with a Cultist  click here

Media contacted about my BK Cult videos and other Cult Videos in my Saving 72 Virgins YouTube Channel click here

In Summary My 10 Years Experience with Brahma Kumaris:

● Yes, I did had many wonderful experiences in BK.
● I met many good souls in BK, and in BK service.
● Yes, BKWSU is very rich as there are now 825,000+ regular students who give generous donations, assets and property.
The Dadis, Surrendered Sisters and centre-wasis (resident teachers) give the public perception that they live an austere life unlike the decadent lifestyle of Televangelical Preachers like Benny Hinn, Kenneth Copeland, Bishop David Oyedepo, but look at this video:


Yes, I had wasted my best Youth Years with BKs.
● Yes, I paid a very Big Religious Karmic Debt because of my past bad Karma and I had to suffer big time during my 10 years with BK.

● The truth is my extreme strict Maryada Discipline was in reality a big PUNISHMENT for past Karma – no sex, no pleasures, no joy, no worldly and earthly enjoyments.
NO, I highly do not recommend Brahma Kumaris as they are a Dark, Dangerous Doomsday Cult who breaks up families, couples, relationships, friends and totally isolate you from normal society and lifestyle.
BKs, Sister Maureen Chen my Sister-In-Law, Philippa, Janaki, Parames, Helen, countless sisters and brothers I brought to BKs – GET OUT while you still can.

Once Dadi Janki and Dadi Gulzar dies it will Game Over for the FALLEN Twin Souls Bapdada. It would payback time, the heavy Return of Bad Karmic Debts for you BKs who will share the huge Karmic Debt as Accomplices of Karmic Crime with Bapdada. It equivalent to joining as War Criminal leader killing millions – it’s no different, probably even worse as death is swift with war executions but Cult sufferings is long-term.


In Summary Why I JOINED Brahma Kumaris (in 1979, in Melbourne):
● I believed and trusted my own brother Tom would introduce me an extraordinary religion.
● Good meditation experience.
● Opportunity to do religious service to help the world.
● The End of the World predicted by Shiva Baba to be 1986.


In Summary Why I LEFT Brahma Kumaris (in 1989, in Hong Kong):
I went to Hell and the Nightmare of BK fierce politics under the ruthless dictator Dr, Nirmala
● The Countless Political Mutinies by key BK Teachers & Students are consistently rampant in every BK centre. Brother Tom & Sister Maureen experienced the hard way – they got ousted by the locals.
the Voice of BK Dissidents are crushed.
● Shiva Baba is a fake god. He is just a human soul (not supreme soul) who is subjected to time, space, and birth whereas God is not.
● Shiva Baba’s teaching is nothing original. He copied mainly from Hinduism but twisted the knowledge to suit Shiva Baba and Brahma Baba.
● Shiva Baba’s repetitive 5,000 year cycle is proven to be ridiculously false by simply looking up in the night sky as 99.9% of the night sky is more than 5,000 light years into the past.
BK is a Dark Doomsday Cult which isolates its students and teachers and break up families, couples, relationships, stop students from studying, rob a BK of a normal living, life enjoyments.
● Maryadas are too strict. There is no life outside BKs. Shrimat is abused by Zone-in-charge and Centerwasis (center residents).


My Latest Insights and Whisperings about Brahma Kumaris with my Twin Soul & Love Angel Brenda:
● Brenda revealed much about FALLEN Twin Souls like Bapdada. (Bapdada belongs to Fallen Angels/Twin Souls Category of Channeled Spirits)
● BK and any Cult is a Big Religious Karmic Debt, a punishment for BK’s past Karma.
BKs and other Cultists including ISIS don’t realize that their joining extremist Religious Cults is actually punishment and return of bad Karma.

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Written by Whisperer Robert Chaen, Founder of Saving 72 Virgins CSR
Published on 1 October 2017.
Updated on 21 January 2018.

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Since the beginning of 2017, I have been using a lot of my own money & staff resources, and personally organizing 3 Key CSR Initiatives which I’m deeply passionate about:

Our Purple Army survey reveals that the easiest people who fall prey to extremist ideologies, dangerous cults and bad company are YOUTHS who are naive, inexperienced, and easily influenced by the smooth-talking cult leaders. Extremists randomly approach strangers in online public forums, chat rooms, or even in shopping malls. We need to counteract this with our own CyberWarfare Purple Army.

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“Saving 72 Virgins” (SSTV) is Cult Awareness & Anti-Sexual Harassment Network of Cult Rescuers, family, and friends to help sexually harassed victims and cult members escape, house, and use cyberwarfare to stop the cancer spread in our community of Extremist Jihadist Cults (e.g. ISIS, Taliban, Boko Haram – kidnapping teenage girls), Religious Cults (e.g. Scientology, Brahma Kumaris), and Large Group Awareness Training (e.g. AsiaWorks, Landmark Education, Lifespring).
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Founder Robert Chaen has been funding various forms of these 3 CSR Initiatives and countless scholarships with his own money to the tune of way over US$100,000. 

You are supporting us to save Youths and Lives from Extremist groups like ISIS, Taliban, Boko Haram, religious fascists, doomsday Cults, depression, mental illnesses THROUGH creative arts, learning, awareness, entrepreneurship, and making Youths as good contributors of community – NOT becoming suicide killers, intolerant extremists, cultists who are all out to isolate their members and to break up families, or youths becoming depressed, lazy, corrupted, and unproductive only seeking for easy handouts.

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Why I Joined & Left Brahma Kumaris Raja Yoga Meditation CULT (2nd Chinese BK) Part 1

Why I Joined & Left Brahma Kumaris Raja Yoga Meditation CULT (2nd Chinese BK) Part 1
(My Cult Confession Story and my Wonderful Experiences in my First Years in BK as the World’s Second Chinese BK)

Written by Whisperer Robert Chaen, who Co-Founded Brahma Kumaris Raja Yoga Meditation Malaysia in 1981.

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Me posing with a Ferrari 308GTB in front of my residence in Toorak, where Melbourne’s rich & famous live. St. Kevin’s College is on the left, Kooyong Courts is in the background.

My Cult Confession Story begins in Melbourne around September 1979 when my brother Tom visited me.

I left my hometown Ipoh, Malaysia to complete my pre-university year (aka “A” Levels) in St. Kevin’s College in 1978. I was studying in Swinburne University I was having a wonderful time with lots of freedom as an under-graduate in Australia, a Western foreign country. Like many Chinese Malaysian parents, they strongly advised me and my 3 siblings (I am the youngest) not to return to Malaysia but to study and migrate overseas.  They saw no future for a Chinese Malaysian as there is strong bias and odds against Non-Malays. I never knew I would uproot and return to Malaysia – twice.

I drove a second-hand Fiat 124S, a poorman’s Italian sportscar. I worked as a part-time waiter in a Hong Kong Chinese Restaurant in Hawthorn, near Swinburne. College life was fun, very exciting and wonderful, and I was starting to notice and chatted with my women college mates…

That Fateful September Day that changed the course of my life and career
My eldest brother Tom drove a long way from Sydney to visit me suddenly.
He gave me the whole 5-day Raja Yoga Meditation (RYM) course in a few hours. It made sense to me and my first Raja Yoga Meditation was great. I saw an aura around Tom when he taught me open-eyed meditation – we look at each other’s Third Eye  (which is in the center of the forehead) through “Dristi” (vision).

I asked him why he drove down just to tell me about the RYM knowledge.
He said that in one of the Murlis (recycled daily class discourse read from a Sakar Murli, daily classes given Shiva Baba through Brahma Baba’s body from 1936-1969) Shiva Baba warned the Brahma Kumaris or BKs (regular students of Brahma Kumaris Raja Yoga Meditation) that if they don’t tell their relatives about the destruction of Iron Age and the end of the world, one day these relatives will blame you for NOT sharing Shiva Baba’s Gyan (knowledge).

Second Chinese in the World to join BK Raja Yoga Meditation
After the 2 hour discourse and meditation, and sensing I was open to RYM, Tom immediately took me to the first Melbourne Raya Yoga Meditation center located in Fitzroy, north of the CBD (city business district). He introduced the Center-in-charge Brother Charlie (he is currently the Country Head of BK Australia) who later gave me a lot of attention, offered free but bland vegetarian meals. I became the SECOND Chinese to ever join BKs. Tom was the First Chinese.

I began to slowly to adopt BK Maryadas aka Principles for Brahmins (very strict disciplines). I was told I was Brahmin (the Hindu caste system) and therefore must obey strict Brahmin rules. Some weekends Brother Charlie Hogg offered me to stay overnight. I would sleep in a sleeping bag. I remember the RYM center was very peaceful, filled with Indian incense. I could hear a wind chime in the middle of the night.

I remembered one time I tried to cook for the center, because I found the vege food too bland I overdid it with too much hot spices. Brother Charlie was always very encouraging about my inexperienced bad cooking. He had a very sweet temperament and a soothing soft voice (nearly every brother imitated his soft mannerism).

Later I would become such an excellent vegan cook that countless converted to vegetarianism because I made vegetarianism so tasty with a mixture of Chinese/ Indian/ Malaysian dishes and ingredients. My cooking was famous among the Dadis even in Madhuban, the HQ of Brahma Kumaris World Spiritual University (BKWSU) in Mt. Abu, Rajasthan, India.  Dadis (aka grandmothers in Hindi) were very senior sisters who left their families and lived with the Founder Brahma Baba in 1936. During the Partition and Independence when Pakistan broke away from India in the early 1950s Brahma Baba moved the community from Pakistan to Mt. Abu.

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Dr. Nirmala & Strict Maryadas
I was introduced to the super-strict Dr. Nirmala, the current Regional Director of Asia-Australia region who later showed her true colors as heartless, tactless, and ruthless. I became more and more involved in BKs.

After 1 month in RYM, I decided I wanted to secretly (not tell my parents) go to my first annual pilgrimage to Madhuban. Brother Charlie gave me the Strict “Shrimat” (supreme directions from Shiva Baba) to follow the Maryadas if I were to stay in Madhuban.

Maybe I was such a rare student (the second Chinese student, and I was very sincere and obedient), I was given a unique exception of being approved by Dr. Nirmala to go to Madhuban with only 3 months in RYM (normally it’s a strict 6 months for Foreigners, 12 months for Indian BKs), not attending daily classes, not 100% pure vegetarianism and I was allowed to eat food in Melbourne food outlets cooked by “impure” Iron-Age (Kali Yuga) people.

Indian Culture Shock & Poster Child
I flew to Bombay. India was a culture shock with the extreme contrast of poverty and rich living next to each other. Instantly Tom and I became a “BK Celebrity” hit with the Indian BKs – later we would be known as “The Chinese BK Brothers“. The Indians and BKs were stunned to see two Chinese wearing traditional white Indian Kurta-Pyjama. Tom & I became the Poster Children of Foreign BK Service. The adoration and admiration was crazy – to be put on a pedestal. I was only 20 years old, Tom my eldest brother was 29 years old.


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Dadi Gulzar is the second, current and the LAST Chariot of Shiva Baba & Brahma Baba (aka Bapdada, the combined Twin Souls).

I had several 1-on-1 meetings with Bapdada in the old big Madhuban hall. When I first saw Bapdada (Twin Souls Shiva Baba & Brahma Baba) enter Dadi Gulzar’s body with a jerk, I kind of freaked out yet at awe to see ‘the supreme soul’ i.e. God himself in person.

The Eerie Voice of the Evil Twin Souls Bapdada – similar to Parseltongue, the Language of the Serpents

Parseltongue is the language of serpents (as well as other magical serpent-based creatures, like the Runespoor and Basilisk) and those who can converse with them. An individual who can speak parseltongue is known as a Parselmouth.

After Madhuban, I stop by my hometown, Ipoh. Somehow my mum found out I went to Madhuban, we had a big fight. Mum made me promise her that I would continue my studies. I promised her, but within 1 month upon arriving in Melbourne I gave up my Business Studies Degree course! All with the full blessings and approval of Dr. Nirmala.

I stopped my University Studies even after promising my Mum not to do it
This is really what happens when the BK Seniors and Centre-in-charge give their “Shrimat” to students not to waste time to study as it’s going to be the end of the World. It happened to me.

For 1 whole year in 1980, I did not go to classes in Swinburne University. I moved into the first Brothers Place near the Fitzroy RYM Centre, together with 5 other Australian BKs. For money I did odd jobs, Amway (for a few months), door-to-door selling, and door-to-door Charity Collector for the Tranby College for Australian Aboriginals (I was the top collector). I’ll spend most of my money on Raja Yoga books, tapes, and to save to start Godly service in Malaysia.

I used my car to take Dr. Nirmala and other BKs to give free talks in various towns in Victoria state, Australia. I was so high, and intoxicated in doing service for the supreme soul Shiva Baba that I didn’t care for anything material. I lost interest in women, I practice Brahmacharya (Celibacy).

Slowly, Slowly I became more and more Isolated from Friends & Relatives and my new Spiritual Family became my one and only World
At one time Dr. Nirmala raided our Brother’s place and instructed us to throw away all our pop songs LP records and cassette tapes. Slowly, slowly I had no entertainment, no movies, no music, no non-BK books, no sex, no meat, no food cooked by non-BKs, no drinking, no socializing, no worldly ambition; sleep by 9pm, wake up by 3:30am, daily classes at 6am, evening service and giving courses – practically I had NO LIFE beyond Brahma Kumaris.

The Death of my 2 Idols: Lennon and Lee
I remember the day when my idol John Lennon was shot in New York on 8 December 1980, I lost interest in worldly Celebrities and their decadent lifestyle. The same thing happened when my teenage Idol Bruce Lee died on 20 July 1973 in Hong Kong, within 1-2 months I lost interest in my Taekwondo classes.

Slowly, slowly my life became more and more isolated from friends, college mates, ‘lokik’ (physical) relatives. My new ‘alokik’ (spiritual) family became my everything, my be all, and my end all.

Only BKs like me will be protected and survive from World Destruction
BK life became simple, uncomplicated, and peaceful – which was wonderful for me facing an uncertain World with nuclear war threat between USSR and USA, civil wars, natural disasters – the world did looked like it’s going to be The End of The World as predicted by Shiva Baba. Yes, all I cared about is Shiva Baba, my God and his Godly Service at this Confluence Age, there is still 6 years left before the predicted End of the World, the end of Iron Age (Kali Yuga) in 1986. And as a BK only BKs will be protected from World Destruction.

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World Destruction and Nostradamus were the great motivators to stay strong in the BK Doomsday Cult
World Destruction always fascinated me since my Protestant Christian days when I was a “Born again” Christian attending The Assembly of God. Like most Christians AOG did predict World Destruction and Nostradamus was widely quoted as evidence.

Detachment is the BK #1 Virtue
In the daily Sakar Murlis (daily recycled classes taught before 1969) brainwashed me to renounce the world, detach anything to do with the Iron Age. I was told on weekly basis in Murlis that my lokik family and relationships are all bad Bondages and Karmic Accounts to be settled through the Fire of Yoga Bhatti Meditation.

I was brainwashed daily by the Murlis to give up my assets, property, and surrender everything to the Yagya (sacrificial fire aka the BK Institution) as I believed my reward in Golden Age is huge and I will be a Golden Age Deity: pure, no sins, no lust, reproduce through pure yoga power without sex, pure vegetarian, including all animals in 2,500 years of Golden Age and Silver Age.

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Lord Krishna playing the ‘Murli’ the flute of knowledge to mesmerize the Gopis (cow herders)

Like a Gopi (cowherder) I was so intoxicated by Shiva Baba’s Murli (the flute of knowledge, Gyan). I was so high because Shiva Baba made me believe that I was once a “worship-worthy” deities like Narayan & Laksmi (The 8 Generations and pairs of Golden Age Kings & Queens), and will be playing with Krishna (the first perfect human of Golden Age, the Adi Dev who will later become Narayan when he becomes King). 

Competition to be in the 108 Rosary – to be “karmateet”
Like all “pakar” BKs (strong in faith and Maryadas), in my early years I aimed to be in the 108 Rosary of the most highest and purest of humans – to be “karmateet” i.e. to settle all past bad Karma and Lokik bondage with my physical family, to be totally free from karma so that I don’t have to go through “Dharmraj”, the Judge (some BKs say the judge is Shiva Baba, some say it’s the highest 8 BK humans of the 108 Rosary); to be totally free from all suffering, ready to be a King or Queen (Narayan or Lakshmi) in Baba’s Golden Age.

Through the years, I was personally mentored by some Dadas and Dadis in Madhuban (the original 300 who eloped with Dada Lekhraj and formed the first BK community). They would actually reveal their estimated ranking in the 108. I knew the top 10 ranking were already been identified especially BKs who had died e.g. Brahma, Saraswati, Didi.

I secretly aimed to be in the top 50 of the 108. I thought I would have a realistically good chance as I was after all the second Chinese in BK, one of the first Foreigner BKs to start service in Asia, and Malaysia had the best results of BK service outside India and Australia; and Bapdada’s direct personal messages to me in Madhuban indicated I was going to be a Mahatma (a great soul).

I made a bold drastic decision to open BK Raja Yoga Meditation Centres in Malaysia in middle of 1980
I told my own brother Tom, Brother Charlie, and Dr. Nirmala my intentions. They were impressed with my super-fast “pakar” progress and dedication – it’s only 9 months since I joined BK RYM. I was not yet 21 years old.

I was moved to Sydney Centre where Brother Charlie had shifted – for 3 months intensive training. Tom was in Sydney living with his Australian wife, Maureen – they were the second BK foreign couple in the world. I worked full time as a packer in a factory. I sold my Fiat car, my stereo hi-fi, I was gearing up to do Godly service by opening the first Kuala Lumpur centre. I did not tell my parents my plan until I was about to leave Australia for good.

I met and shared with some of the original Australian Jewels like Ken O’Donnell, Anthony Strano (died in 27 July 2014), Wendy Sargent, Peter & Martin Damo (Bolanath), the 2 giant brothers from Brisbane centre (they have since married and now Ex-BKs according to BrahmaKumaris.info).

I finally had the courage to tell my parents my plan one or two weeks before flying to Perth and then to Singapore, on route to Mt. Abu.

My parents drove or took a train down to see Tom & I in Singapore. The first thing my Mum did was to touch my hair – she thought I had became a Hari Krishna who shaves one’s head bald. She begged, pleaded with me to continue my studies, and reminded my promise I made to her 1 year before. Alas, at no avail for a desperate mother who suddenly lost her two sons to a cult.

South Indian Deities
Tom and I had a simple plan: to learn as much about South Indian Deities. We figured that the first likely Malaysian BK students will be Hindus Malaysians who mainly originated from Tamil Nadu.


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Meenakshi Amman Temple in Madurai

Tom & I arrived in Madras (now known as Chennai).
It was late March 1981. Sister Rose, the Sister-in-charge treated us well. We took a 2 week slow bus Tamil Nadu tour. We first went to Madurai where the Meenakshi Amman Temple, it was the biggest Hindu temple I ever visited. We stayed in BK RYM Centres along the way – all arranged by Sister Rose who had done service in Singapore previously.


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The next stop was beautiful Kanyakumari, the southern most tip of the Indian Sub-Continent – where you can watch the Sunrise and Sunset in the same spot.


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Ooty Hill Station

Next stops were Coimbatore, and Ooty, “The Honeymoon Hill”

Also known as Udhagamandalam, Ooty is often referred to as ‘Queen of hill stations’. It is the capital of Nilgiris district in the state of Tamilnadu. Nilgiris means ‘Blue Mountains’. A land of picturesque picnic spots & lakes, it was a popular summer and weekend getaway for the British during colonial days. It is situated at an altitude of 7,440 feet (2,240 meters) above sea level.

I had fond memories of my Tamil Nadu trip in 1981. It seems like a great start of my BK experience and brilliant BK career.

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The Longest, Craziest Train Ride from Chennai to New Delhi & The Road to Madhuban
Tom & I travelled from Chennai to New Delhi with the first Singapore BK mother (Sister Meena) who lived upstairs directly above the BK Raja Yoga Centre in Katong, run by Sister Bharati, who had a bad reputation of falling asleep while giving ‘dhristi’ from the gadi (a cushioned platform where Murli classes are given). 

It was the slowest and cheapest train from Chennai. It stopped at every train station to New Delhi. Mothers were cooking chapati and meals in tiny portable stoves. We sat in wooden bunker seats upright for 3 days, 2 nights. I never appreciated Wet Ones so much in India. At each train station stop, the Sounds of Limca, Limca, Limca (a famous Indian drink), wadai, wadai, wadai snacks, and pakchesh (donations) echoes throughout the train.

By the time we arrived in New Delhi my white kurta-pyjama looked grey with dust. After 3 days and 2 nights without a shower, the first bath in New Delhi felt like I was purified in the holy Ganges River.

We attended a huge peace march and ended on stage in the Red Fort. Then we went on a train to Abu Road from New Delhi, this would be the only time I go to Madhuban via ND. It’s an hour long bus ride or fast jeep from Abu Road to Mt. Abu where Madhuban is.

“Charity begins at home”, said Bapdada
Tom & I met Bapdada a few times in April 1981. Bapdada totally blessed us and said to us that “Charity begins at home”.


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Ex-BK (1979-1989), World’s First Chinese BK (with his brother, Tom; and Sister Maureen Chen who is still a top BK), Co-Founder of Brahma Kumaris Malaysia (founded in 1981).

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How to Escape a Cult and Win a Debate with a Cultist

How to Escape a Cult and Win a Debate with a Cultist

How to Help a Cult Relative or Friend to Escape a Deceptive Cult:
●  Take a cultist out the cult’s surroundings for a drink, or invite him (we’ll use “him” not “him/her” for easy writing) to your home.
●  If the cultist lives with you, find a convenient time to talk. Don’t gather a group and confront him yet (he will view it as “persecution” and go further into his Cult Cave).
●  Be real frank and genuine in your comments. Tell him that you (and whoever else e.g. family, wife) are very concern that he is isolating himself from your, his family and friends and it’s a bad sign of cult brainwashing.
●  Give him room to reply. Don’t cut him off or interrupt unnecessarily.

●  How to Win a Cult Debate:
Know he’ll talk how wonderful his new knowledge, wisdom is.
●  Do your research. Google the name of the cult and add the word cult (e.g. Scientology Cult). To win a debate you need to find what you think is The Top 3 Weaknesses of the Cult (e.g. the cult isolate members, break up families & friends, the cult is obsessed with Doomsday Predictions, the cult have weird practices, the cult discipline lifestyle is too strict, etc).

●  How The Cultist Defend his Cult:
●  Don’t debate on a Cult’s Strengths. He will defend that the cult does good community service and projects.
●  Note: Nearly all big cults do some legitimate form of community service but it is a Cult Camouflage to make them look legitimate.
●  He will show the cult’s Poster Men & Women: these individuals (normally lawyers, doctors, government servants, entrepreneurs) who are usually successful already but are now used as Testimonials)
●  He will show the cult’s VIP/ Celebrity Men & Women (e.g. Scientology uses Tom Cruise as their VIP Poster Celebrity)
Note: Just because the cult has good people and celebrity joining their events, it doesn’t make the cult any less dangerous to society.

●  Show him the best YouTube videos about Cults in general
(e.g. My CULT Confession: Landmark, Asiaworks, Lifespring & other LGAT & Charismatic Cults); or a specific bad experience by an Ex-Cult Leader (e.g. My CULT Confession: Brahma Kumaris Raja Yoga Meditation is a Dark Cult Part 1);
or the best videos are those that directly challenge the cult with the cult’s own jargon, holy book, scriptures.
(example 1: David Wood debates with Jihadists with Quran references: 3 Stages of Jihad: 1. Stealth (Taqiyya: Deception) 2. Terrorism 3. Sharia on Non-Muslims)
(example 2: The 101 Deceptive Faces of Brahma Kumaris Raja Yoga Meditation Cult)

How to Help a Cultist Escape the Cult

How a Cultist can Escape Cults:
●  Get help from a psycho-therapist.
●  Run away, hide, and lay low for a while away from the cult leaders’ radar.
After missing from them for a few months you become no longer important to them as there are many other straying and backsliding sheep to worry about.
●  Build a Reforming Ex-Cult Support GroupShare quietly with your family or close friendswhom you had left behind – I ensure you they will take you back anytime like a Prodigal Son.
●  Have courage to admit that you have WASTED your life, marriage, relationships, friendships, career, finances, time and money on the cult, and declare openly that you have left the cult.
●  Be a beacon of light for other cult followers to leave the cult.

How a Family Member can Protect himself from a Cultist
1. Being financially stable or good job/career gives you a lot more options. If your Cultist is a parent or husband they may use Money to control you.
Find paying work so you are not dependent on the Cultist’s income, or being controlled by the cultist’s money.
2.  Form a Support Group and share your struggles with living with a Cultist.
You support group should a variety of supporters such parents, siblings, relatives, best friends.
3.  Reach out and be careful which online chat group you go to (Warning: There are many predators who prey on vulnerable victims of cultists).
4.  Report to the Authorities if he gets violent, aggressive, or abusive.
Don’t try to rescue the cultist first, protect yourself first. When you feel safe enough, you can try to rescue the cultist. Sometimes the cultist is too faith-blinded or too stubborn to leave the cult.

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