This is an open letter resent and written on behalf of your family, loved one, spouse, relative, colleague, associate, college mate, your best friend, or someone who is genuinely concerned about you and your involvement with Brahma Kumaris.

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Dear Brahma Kumaris,

Your family and friends do not know how to talk to you.
All I know is your family and friends LOVE YOU.
Your family misses you.
They care so much about you.
Your family actually maybe thinking that you may be manipulated by BKs, or that you maybe wasting  your life away. But are you really wasting your life away?

Always remember BLOOD is thicker than water.
This letter may have been translated from English.

Firstly, you likely do not know who I am.
I was like you a BK – a super “pakar” (strong and strict in BK discipline) BK who secretly believed I had an excellent chance to be in the Top 50 in the Highest 108 Rosary. (note: I’ll be using many Hindi terms used in BK with English translation).

You see, I was the World’s Second Chinese BK to join Brahma Kumaris in 1979.
I was introduced to BKWSU (Brahma Kumaris World Spiritual University) by my brother Tom Chen whose ex-wife is Sister Maureen Chen. I co-founded Brahma Kumaris Malaysia with Tom in 1981. You can read about my #BKMeToo Testimonial.

I feel responsible that I brought many people to accept BK, and personally trained many powerful pakar BK Teachers who spread BK movement around the world. I want to make it right, and share my #MeTooBK experience with those I brought to Shiva Baba, the God of Brahma Kumaris.

Secondly, let me share my wonderful experiences in my 10 years with BKs.
After hearing Baba’s “Murli” (flute, daily class), my “lokik” (physical) brother Tom drove down from Sydney to Melbourne to tell me the bad news and the good news.

The bad news is Baba has warned BKs that their families will be extremely upset with them if BKs do not reveal that the world will end soon at the end of “Kali Yuga” (Iron Age).

The good news is Shiva Baba, God has come to Earth since 1936 at the start of “Sangam  Yuga” (Confluence Age) and one of his key roles is to take all souls back to the Soul World and re-start the 5,000-year Cycle again identically. Baba says all souls must go back to the Soul World before each soul will come down in a specific time in the 5,000-year Cycle depending how pure the soul becomes in Confluence Age.

Only 900,000 BK souls will come down and become 100% perfect Deities at the beginning of the upcoming “Sat Yuga” (Golden Age, Heaven on Earth; circa 2,964 BC to 1,714 BC) only in “Bharat” (India). Brahma Baba who died in 18th January 1969 will become the First Perfect Deity called Krishna who then become First Narayan, the First King of Golden Age.

All non-BKs will come after Silver Age (circa 1714 BC to 464 BC) in Copper Age (circa 464 BC to 786 AD) or Iron Age (786 AD to 2036 AD) into their respective Religions. According to Shiva baba the earlier the religion in history the purer the religion e.g. Buddha/ Buddhism (480 BC to 400 BC) is a much purer religion than Muhammad/ Muslim (570 to 632).

Tom shared the key concepts of the 7-day BK course in 2 hours only. We sat in open-eyed meditation and I had a wonderful experience and saw an aura around Tom’s head. He immediately took me to Brahma Kumaris Raja Yoga Centre in Fitroy, Melbourne where I met Brother Charlie who became my BK mentor.

Sensing that I was very interested to do BK world service, Didi Dr. Nirmala fast-tracked me to go to Madhuban to meet Bapdada after only 3 months in “Gyan” (BK knowledge) – even though  I was not fully following the “Maryadas” (strict BK discipline like 4am meditation, vegetarian).

Read Why I Joined & Left Brahma Kumaris Raja Yoga Meditation:

By now, you should get a good sense from the last few paragraphs that I’m not questioning the VALIDITY of both my and your many wonderful personal experiences with Shiva Baba, Bapdada, Dadis, Madhuban, retreats, personal efforts and service, and with friendship with the many wonderful BKs.

I myself had wonderful experiences doing ‘Godly service’, deep experiences with Bapdada. I was very lucky to have many powerful, personal 1-on-1 Avyakt Bapdada messages in my 10 annual Madhuban pilgrimages. I’ve met many good, rational BKs myself.

Both my and your experiences with Baba are real for sure.

Let me share The 3 Characteristics of Brahma Kumaris Ideology:

1. Brahma Kumaris is the ONLY path to truth, salvation, and Heaven on Earth.
Only Brahma Kumaris will be perfect Deities in Golden Age India (Heaven on Earth). All Non-BKs will be born after Silver Age when it is ‘Hell on Earth’.

2. Dadis, BK Senior Sisters and Raja Yoga Centre Leadership give advice on every aspect of BK living. Maryadas (daily principles) are given on how BKs should think, act, and feel.

BKs are given strict Shrimat (godly instructions) not only to be strict vegetarian but BKs are not allowed to eat food cooked by IMPURE non-BKs including mothers (unless the mothers are very old and no longer have sex).

Shiva Baba gives Shrimat to renounce their lokik (physical) families, to be karmateet (free from karma) – because “the end of the world is coming very soon”.

Shiva Baba’s daily Murli classes is the most effective learning tool to make personal commitments to Shiva Baba/ Bapdada teachings.

BKs are taught well and require the Centre-In-Charge or Regional Director’s permission to change jobs, studies, and most major decisions. BK teachers will normally not allow BKs to have new children to be born, unless a BK couple is very weak, or they are close relative and they may leave them alone not to follow strict discipline.

Shiva Baba instructs BK couples that they are no longer husband and wife but brother and sister – even though couples had made their marriage vows as a couple years ago. Young BK couples are usually advised to sleep in different bedrooms.

3. The Importance of BK Family and BK Godly Service
Through the daily Murlis, Shiva Baba teaches BKs to live an austere life with a ultra-strict discipline, waking up for 4:00 am Amrit Vela meditation, daily Murli classes, doing service part-time, evenings and weekends, and sleeping very early say by 9:00 pm.

BK Centre-in-Charges will instruct BK students to detach and renounce their physical families and friends and make the BK family their only family since they will be spending Golden Age and Silver Age together for 2,500 years.

BK organization has strict rules not help a BK with financial problems. BK Teachers will always direct them back to their real families convincing them that it is their own “lokik karmic bondages”.

Now according to the International Cult Studies Association (ICSA), the above 3 Characteristics of Brahma Kumaris Ideology are the SAME 3 out of 9 Characteristics a Typical Cult:

Therefore, in a nutshell Brahma Kumaris has 3 Characteristics of a Cult:
1. BK is the only way to truth and Heaven on Earth (most cults say this).
2. Dadis, BK Senior Teachers and Centre-In-Charges control every aspect of BK life
Brahma Kumaris has stopped countless new babies from being born because of their Doomsday beliefs.
3. BK Teachers isolate BKs totally and BK have practically little time and NO life outside the BK life, except for work.

Again, I am not questioning the VALIDITY of both my BK and your BK Experiences.

What I’m questioning is Shiva Baba’s ‘hidden’ false promises of Golden Age and ‘perfect’ Deity Race, the ultra-strict weird Maryada ideology of making husband and wife into ‘brother and sister’ – thereby killing countless marriages.

And worse of all, the Massive Cover-Up of countless marriage failures, university studies stopped (like my university studies), career ambition abandoned, and BKs deceived to surrender their assets, property, and money donations to the Yagya (sacrificial fire or BK institution) as every year Bapdada and Dadis deceive BKs that “the world will end soon” (all doomsday cults have always been proven 100% wrong because the world has never ended).

BKs proudly proclaim that BK is an recognized United Nations NGO, therefore BK is legitimate.

Similarly, I’m not questioning the validity of Adolf Hitler and Nazism and their many wonderful experiences with doctors, lawyers, professionals, and celebrities.

What I’m questioning is Hitler’s ‘hidden’ evil ideology, and superior Aryan Race, and the  practice of Holocaust – thereby killing countless millions.

Let me share with you how my mother desperately knelt in front of Didi Dr. Nirmala to give back her two sons. I was too blind to see the hurt suffered by my mother.
Let me share with you how brother Tom’s marriage were ruined by separating Tom & Maureen in 2 different countries. Tom & I did Malaysian service and Sister Maureen did Hong Kong Service.

Let me share with you how I gave up my university studies to start BK Centres in Malaysia because I believed foolishly Shiva Baba’s prediction that the world will end in 1986 (and every year BK Dadis and BK Teachers will say the world will end very soon).

After 10 years in gyan, I walked away from a very high ‘status’ as the World’s Second Chinese BK. I never looked back as my life is now free and infinitely better.
So can YOU.


I encourage you to consider only 3 Pointers about Brahma Kumaris and BK ideology:

1.  Brahma Kumaris’ Repeating 5,000-year Cycle and Identical Earth History is impossible and weird.

A very simple irrefutable proof.
99.9% of what you see in the night sky is more than 5,000 years in the past.
For example the moon is 1.3 light seconds away – in the past.
Our closest spiral galaxy is Andromeda – it is 2.2 million light years away from us – in the past.

How is it possible that ALL traces of Iron Age such as internet, flag on the Moon (from Apollo 11), and all capital cities will be 100% destroyed only to rebuilt again identically and exactly the same EVERY 5,000 years. Imagine reading this article or hearing this video every 5,000 years, 5,000 years ago, and 5,000 years in the future – identically.

How is it possible that there are NO traces of Golden Age such Lakshmi & Narayan palace ruins (deity temples are not proof of Golden Age), the most perfect Golden Age and Viman (flying machines) technologies (which was supposed to be way more advanced than the Iron-Age Internet Age technologies). There are no recorded written history of perfect humans from 5,000 years ago?

2. Shiva Baba’s Golden Age is impossible and delusional.

There is ZERO historical evidence that there was Shiva Baba’s PERFECT Human Race and perfect living beings living in a PERFECT Earth i.e. On Earth had no sickness, no suffering, no sex, no carnivorous animals, no wars, and no natural disasters.
How and when in Earth’s history was perfection ever possible?
Brahma Kumaris can’t explain.

Earth and India were never ever perfect in history.
It is impossible for Earth, India and human beings to be perfect on Earth.

There is no such thing as ‘Heaven on Earth’.
Earth was never perfect.
Earth will never ever be perfect in the future.

Everybody knows China has a long 4,000-year history was ruled by imperial dynasties.
Ancient Egypt historical records started 5,168 years ago – when Shiva Baba claimed his perfect Golden Age happened ONLY in his promise-land India 5,000 years ago.

Chinese and Egyptian recorded histories disprove Shiva Baba’s false claim that ONLY Brahma Kumaris will rule the Golden & Silver Ages (circa 2,964 BC to 464 BC) when India was 100% perfect for a 2,500 year period.

There were countless solid archaeological evidence of IMPERFECT ancient Egyptian, Indus Valley, Babylon, Chinese and all ancient civilizations have historical items in famous museums – but there are NO PERFECT Ancient Deity civilization archaeological proof in India, how come?

It is absolutely impossible that India (Bharat) can ‘suddenly’ change from imperfect to perfect, and perfect to imperfect every 2,500 years.

Evolution never allows perfection – evolution allows adaptation and survival of the fittest.

It is extremely dangerous that Hitler (Aryan Race Supremacy) and Shiva Baba (Ancient PERFECT Deity Race Supremacy) advocate similar Superior Race Ideologies.

The biggest shocking difference is Shiva Baba 100% believes in a PERFECT RACE whereas Hitler logically didn’t. Nazism and Brahma Kumaris are Superior Race Cults which has absolutely no place in this modern world.

“The universe doesn’t allow perfection.”
~ Stephen Hawking

3. Your family, friends or spouse love you.

Your family and friends do not know how to talk to you as you most likely have been totally brainwashed and shut your family out. You are not hearing your family because you are blinded. Listen to your family cries, suffering, and pleads.

Your family and friends LOVE YOU.

Deep down in you, you know the above 3 Pointers are true.
So let your heart open and be free again.

Be leaf.
Fall and be free.
The Truth will set you free.

If after you genuinely talked with your family and friends about BKs, and you still believe in Shiva Baba, then your family, friends and I wish you well as you have a human right to whatever belief and faith you want.

Otherwise, please don’t WASTE your life, surrendering your time, service, assets, and money anymore – because latest by 2036 (the end of Shiva Baba’s 100-year Confluence Age), all BKs will realize that the world did not end, and it’s KARMA game over when Shiva Baba/Bapdada’s last chariot dies much sooner than 2036.

Wake up BK.
Allow yourself the permission to question Brahma Kumaris and Shiva Baba’s teachings.
If you are genuinely open, you cannot but realize the simple TRUTH that Shiva Baba’s promise of Golden Age is false, impossible and delusional, and Brahma Kumaris is the World’s Biggest Doomsday Cult. Because the estimated 7.8 Billion humans will die at the end of Iron Age on 2036.

Warmest regards,

Whisperer Robert Chaen
International Cult Expert
World’s Second Chinese BK, Co-Founder of Brahma Kumaris Malaysia, Ex-BK (1979-1989)

NOTE: Robert wrote this open letter on behalf of your family and friends who are suffering, missing you deeply, and feeling helpless and voiceless because most likely you’ve closed your mind due to the daily Murli brainwashing. Return and get support from your own family and friends. They will help you as they love you, and accept you as you are. Blood is thicker than water.

The links in this letter should be able to answer most if not all of your questions.
Robert can no longer personally respond, help, or answer you or your family’s questions as he lives an extremely busy life. He left BKs in 1989. All the best in your endeavors.

Published:  28th December 2018.
Updated: 20th May 2019.

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Note to Family and Friends of BKs:
You are most welcome to freely copy and paste excerpts or this entire open letter into your email to your BK family member or BK friend. It may open a door for a BK to be free, or at least start a window of opportunity and conversation with you about false BK ideologies.


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