How to Escape a Cult and Win a Debate with a Cultist

How to Escape a Cult and Win a Debate with a Cultist

How to Help a Cult Relative or Friend to Escape a Deceptive Cult:
●  Take a cultist out the cult’s surroundings for a drink, or invite him (we’ll use “him” not “him/her” for easy writing) to your home.
●  If the cultist lives with you, find a convenient time to talk. Don’t gather a group and confront him yet (he will view it as “persecution” and go further into his Cult Cave).
●  Be real frank and genuine in your comments. Tell him that you (and whoever else e.g. family, wife) are very concern that he is isolating himself from your, his family and friends and it’s a bad sign of cult brainwashing.
●  Give him room to reply. Don’t cut him off or interrupt unnecessarily.

●  How to Win a Cult Debate:
Know he’ll talk how wonderful his new knowledge, wisdom is.
●  Do your research. Google the name of the cult and add the word cult (e.g. Scientology Cult). To win a debate you need to find what you think is The Top 3 Weaknesses of the Cult (e.g. the cult isolate members, break up families & friends, the cult is obsessed with Doomsday Predictions, the cult have weird practices, the cult discipline lifestyle is too strict, etc).

●  How The Cultist Defend his Cult:
●  Don’t debate on a Cult’s Strengths. He will defend that the cult does good community service and projects.
●  Note: Nearly all big cults do some legitimate form of community service but it is a Cult Camouflage to make them look legitimate.
●  He will show the cult’s Poster Men & Women: these individuals (normally lawyers, doctors, government servants, entrepreneurs) who are usually successful already but are now used as Testimonials)
●  He will show the cult’s VIP/ Celebrity Men & Women (e.g. Scientology uses Tom Cruise as their VIP Poster Celebrity)
Note: Just because the cult has good people and celebrity joining their events, it doesn’t make the cult any less dangerous to society.

●  Show him the best YouTube videos about Cults in general
(e.g. My CULT Confession: Landmark, Asiaworks, Lifespring & other LGAT & Charismatic Cults); or a specific bad experience by an Ex-Cult Leader (e.g. My CULT Confession: Brahma Kumaris Raja Yoga Meditation is a Dark Cult Part 1);
or the best videos are those that directly challenge the cult with the cult’s own jargon, holy book, scriptures.
(example 1: David Wood debates with Jihadists with Quran references: 3 Stages of Jihad: 1. Stealth (Taqiyya: Deception) 2. Terrorism 3. Sharia on Non-Muslims)
(example 2: The 101 Deceptive Faces of Brahma Kumaris Raja Yoga Meditation Cult)

How to Help a Cultist Escape the Cult

How a Cultist can Escape Cults:
●  Get help from a psycho-therapist.
●  Run away, hide, and lay low for a while away from the cult leaders’ radar.
After missing from them for a few months you become no longer important to them as there are many other straying and backsliding sheep to worry about.
●  Build a Reforming Ex-Cult Support GroupShare quietly with your family or close friendswhom you had left behind – I ensure you they will take you back anytime like a Prodigal Son.
●  Have courage to admit that you have WASTED your life, marriage, relationships, friendships, career, finances, time and money on the cult, and declare openly that you have left the cult.
●  Be a beacon of light for other cult followers to leave the cult.

How a Family Member can Protect himself from a Cultist
1. Being financially stable or good job/career gives you a lot more options. If your Cultist is a parent or husband they may use Money to control you.
Find paying work so you are not dependent on the Cultist’s income, or being controlled by the cultist’s money.
2.  Form a Support Group and share your struggles with living with a Cultist.
You support group should a variety of supporters such parents, siblings, relatives, best friends.
3.  Reach out and be careful which online chat group you go to (Warning: There are many predators who prey on vulnerable victims of cultists).
4.  Report to the Authorities if he gets violent, aggressive, or abusive.
Don’t try to rescue the cultist first, protect yourself first. When you feel safe enough, you can try to rescue the cultist. Sometimes the cultist is too faith-blinded or too stubborn to leave the cult.

wikiHow to Leave a Cult

How Do People Get Out of Religious Cults?




Saving 72 Virgins Logo & Slogan.jpg

Written by Robrenda, Founder of Saving 72 Virgins CSR
Published on 28 September 2017.

Copyright 2017 ©

Like our pages: Saving 72 Virgins Robrenda
Youtube: Saving 72 Virgins

SHARE this article if you want to expose Cults.
You are most welcome to share this article in your social media or website with only 1 term & condition: acknowledge this source and author Robrenda.




Published by

Robert Chaen

Global CEO-Founder of ChangeU and Movsha Movers & Shakers, Hero-CEO Whisperer, Writer, The #1 Alpha Change Expert, Father of Asian FireWalking Robert Chaen is an International Keynote Speaker, writer, researcher, and corp games designer. He is famously known to be the “Hero-CEO Whisperer”, 1-on1 coaching with many CEOs and Celebrities for corporate strategies, staff & office political issues, personal branding, and even public figure OSHA safety drilling called Drager Defense. He has transformed CEOs and managers in Coca-Cola China, TVB Hong Kong, Cathay Pacific, Hong Kong Airport Services, VADS, TM, Public Bank, Auditor General's Office Maldives, etc. He is the prolific creator and online Author of innovative management tools such as DragonCEO, Diamond Leader, Papillon Personal Effectiveness, OSHA Drager Defense, KPI Bank, etc. He is also the Founder of Movsha, an international networking with monthly mingles with MOVers & SHAkers, Angels, Entrepreneurs, CEOs, Celebrities, HR-PR-CSR, HODs, and the Most Influential IDEA people. ​Chaen is widely considered as one of the top International Platform Keynote Speakers for Resorts World Genting Senior Management Conference (Manila), 7-Eleven HK, Samsung, Coca-Cola China Mini-MBA @Tsing Hua University, Cathay Pacific, Hong Kong Jockey Club, The Story Conference where he interviewed Datuk Kamarudin (Chairman of AirAsia) and Siti Nurhaliza. He has been widely featured in TVB, AWSJ, CNBC, SCMP, The Star, and Sin Chew. As “The Father of Asian FireWalking”, he coached TVB celebrities (Ekin Cheng Yee-Kin) to walk on 650°C fire; and raised HK$68M in the world’s 1st and only live TV Charity FireWalk (TVB Tung Wah Charity Show), before Tony Robbins even came to Asia. If Robert can get you to walk on 650⁰C fire, he can inspire you to be THE BEST. He champions CN-HK-EU-US Tycoons to be philanthropic, and to be angel investors to support the next generation of Jack Mas, Steve Jobs, Richard Bransons, Steven Spielbergs, or Barrack Obamas. With some slick motivational speakers with fake doctorates out there, graduates often describe Robert to be "the most credible, empowering, truthful Coach" who believe in his graduates to believe in themselves. ​However, clients have described Robert as "The #1 Cool Badass Alpha Change Expert". He has the coolest first class stature, rapport and trust from clients. He will not hesitate to tell the badass truth ever so gently because clients are paying him big bucks to reveal the truth, find solutions, persuade the hostile HODs, and align cross-teams within the organization. Originally based in Hong Kong for 20+ years, he had worked with top Branding/Ad agencies at J Walter Thompson and Leo Burnett, and was a certified FranklinCovey (7 Habits) in USA, and NLP MasterCoach (USA). His warmth is known to soften the most hardened, resistant sceptics. He will inspire your team to Go for Top 1, or to be a Dragon CEO. With boundless energies, Robert owns 15+ successful business Joint-Ventures, and created unique products under his global VC network called Chaen's Angels VC. He is deeply passionate about ChangeUTH Youth CSR, Science-Based Medicine (vs. quackery), short films and Reality TV. Touched by a personal tragedy through the loss of his HK-born Portuguese wife, co-coach and business partner, Brenda José of 18 years, Robert explores the many ways in which the spirit world is communicating with the living with real scientific studies and evidence. He gives inspiring conferences on The Secret Afterlife.

Leave a Reply

Fill in your details below or click an icon to log in: Logo

You are commenting using your account. Log Out /  Change )

Google+ photo

You are commenting using your Google+ account. Log Out /  Change )

Twitter picture

You are commenting using your Twitter account. Log Out /  Change )

Facebook photo

You are commenting using your Facebook account. Log Out /  Change )


Connecting to %s