Robrenda’s Advice for Tinder Photos & Profile for MEN & WOMEN

Robrenda’s Advice for Tinder Photos for MEN
●  Spend a lot of time to write The BEST FIRST LINE in your Profile.
●  I experimented with the equivalent statement which many women insert to put off horny men (“no hook ups“): “No sugar daddy hook-ups” but in reality I get more matches with this statement than without this statement… you go figure!
●  Show the perception of CLASS by with pics of you in classy attire

●  For men, you should include photos with you with other beautiful women. Why? 
A photo of you in the company of beauties create a cheerleader effect”.

●  Women want men who are in high demand by women. 
●  Many women are biologically attracted by ‘taken’ men or married men. Why?
Mate poaching
is a robust phenomenon, and it is here to stay. When single women see a moderately attractive male, they are more interested in him if they believe he is already in a relationship! In fact, one sizable study found
90% of single women were interested in a man who they believed was taken, while a mere 59% wanted him when told he was single.  read more

With the above hindsight, as you have a maximum of 5 photos to include in your Tinder profile, I suggest the following for men:

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Photo 1:  You with a hot Woman Celebrity (married or single it doesn’t matter because it implies women celebrities find you attractive).

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Photo 2:  You ALONE with 3-5 beautiful women (not with models in car shows, not you with another man with other beautiful women – women will think it’s a party pic).

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Photo 3:   You on a fun holiday trip with one woman and 1 man (let them guess who the woman was with)

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Photo 4:   You in an active work/project environment: Women are attracted to men who appear ambitious, have a passion (e.g. motorbike, sports but no 6-pack gym pics), and active (women are turn off by slackers).


Photo 5: Your portrait in full suit and tie:  as most women are impressed with men in full suit. 

Alternative Men Photos:
[] You with any famous Celebrities (sports, actor, singer, chef, dancer), public figure CEO (e.g. Richard Branson), PM  [] office photo with you alone with hot women colleagues  [] in uniform  [] long-sleeves white shirt but rolled up

NOTE to Tinder Men:
●  No photos of your dick (no matter how endowed it is!)


Advice for Tinder Photos for WOMEN

●  Spend a lot of time to write the BEST FIRST LINE in your Profile.
●  For women, you should include photos with you with other beautiful women, but not alone with handsome men. Why?
●  Firstly men are drawn to the visual of a group of women doesn’t matter if all of them are bland. Secondly, what works for men will not work for women i.e. pic of you alone with handsome men.Why? Because most men are intimidated by obvious competition too easily. 

Photo 1 (most important photo):  You with a hot Woman Celebrity
(men are instantly drawn to click at hot celebrity women)

Photo 2:  You alone in the most gorgeous evening gown (doesn’t have to be revealing, with plunging neckline), 

Photo 3:  You alone in office/ professional attire (women wearing a close-fitting long sleeves shirt is very sexy)

Photo 4:  You in women’ night out  (but no drunk pics) 

Photo 5:  You with little or no make-up (to show you are confident and not a “fake Korean” beauty haha).

Alternative Women Photos:
[] You with any famous Celebrities (sports, actor, singer, chef, dancer), public figure CEO (e.g. Richard Branson), PM  [] office photo with you with hot women colleagues  [] in uniform

NOTE to Tinder Women:
●  Classy photos of you with see through, some cleavage is ok, too much skin you’ll get more attention and men of the horny type which you seriously don’t want.
●  No photos of pets only (you with a pet is ok)
●  S
ome dating coaches do not advice to include the super-common cliche gym pics (well, men are attracted to the visual so you showing off your butt may get them excited enough to swipe right)
●  No quotes – it doesn’t make you more Sapiosexual!


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Robert Chaen

Global CEO-Founder of ChangeU and Movsha Movers & Shakers, Hero-CEO Whisperer, Writer, The #1 Alpha Change Expert, Father of Asian FireWalking Robert Chaen is an International Keynote Speaker, writer, researcher, and corp games designer. He is famously known to be the “Hero-CEO Whisperer”, 1-on1 coaching with many CEOs and Celebrities for corporate strategies, staff & office political issues, personal branding, and even public figure OSHA safety drilling called Drager Defense. He has transformed CEOs and managers in Coca-Cola China, TVB Hong Kong, Cathay Pacific, Hong Kong Airport Services, VADS, TM, Public Bank, Auditor General's Office Maldives, etc. He is the prolific creator and online Author of innovative management tools such as DragonCEO, Diamond Leader, Papillon Personal Effectiveness, OSHA Drager Defense, KPI Bank, etc. He is also the Founder of Movsha, an international networking with monthly mingles with MOVers & SHAkers, Angels, Entrepreneurs, CEOs, Celebrities, HR-PR-CSR, HODs, and the Most Influential IDEA people. ​Chaen is widely considered as one of the top International Platform Keynote Speakers for Resorts World Genting Senior Management Conference (Manila), 7-Eleven HK, Samsung, Coca-Cola China Mini-MBA @Tsing Hua University, Cathay Pacific, Hong Kong Jockey Club, The Story Conference where he interviewed Datuk Kamarudin (Chairman of AirAsia) and Siti Nurhaliza. He has been widely featured in TVB, AWSJ, CNBC, SCMP, The Star, and Sin Chew. As “The Father of Asian FireWalking”, he coached TVB celebrities (Ekin Cheng Yee-Kin) to walk on 650°C fire; and raised HK$68M in the world’s 1st and only live TV Charity FireWalk (TVB Tung Wah Charity Show), before Tony Robbins even came to Asia. If Robert can get you to walk on 650⁰C fire, he can inspire you to be THE BEST. He champions CN-HK-EU-US Tycoons to be philanthropic, and to be angel investors to support the next generation of Jack Mas, Steve Jobs, Richard Bransons, Steven Spielbergs, or Barrack Obamas. With some slick motivational speakers with fake doctorates out there, graduates often describe Robert to be "the most credible, empowering, truthful Coach" who believe in his graduates to believe in themselves. ​However, clients have described Robert as "The #1 Cool Badass Alpha Change Expert". He has the coolest first class stature, rapport and trust from clients. He will not hesitate to tell the badass truth ever so gently because clients are paying him big bucks to reveal the truth, find solutions, persuade the hostile HODs, and align cross-teams within the organization. Originally based in Hong Kong for 20+ years, he had worked with top Branding/Ad agencies at J Walter Thompson and Leo Burnett, and was a certified FranklinCovey (7 Habits) in USA, and NLP MasterCoach (USA). His warmth is known to soften the most hardened, resistant sceptics. He will inspire your team to Go for Top 1, or to be a Dragon CEO. With boundless energies, Robert owns 15+ successful business Joint-Ventures, and created unique products under his global VC network called Chaen's Angels VC. He is deeply passionate about ChangeUTH Youth CSR, Science-Based Medicine (vs. quackery), short films and Reality TV. Touched by a personal tragedy through the loss of his HK-born Portuguese wife, co-coach and business partner, Brenda José of 18 years, Robert explores the many ways in which the spirit world is communicating with the living with real scientific studies and evidence. He gives inspiring conferences on The Secret Afterlife.

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