The Right Woman wants your time, smile, honesty and priority – not your car, $$$, and gifts!

The Right Woman wants your time, smile, honesty and priority – not your car, $$$, and gifts!

Dear Men:
You might think she wants your car, your money, and gifts.
But the Right Woman wants your time, your smile, your honesty, your effort, and you choosing to put her as a priority.

I think for me, the Right Woman will definitely have my smile, honesty, sincere efforts, and she will be a priority.

What my problem is the “Supeman’s Time Commitment Syndrome”.
You know… “But Lois, I’m Superman. I belong to the world! I need to save people and the world, don’t you get it? I may have to cut short our dinner date at Ritz, or skip this weekend, ok?”

So the question is not how high a financial maintenance or high priority maintenance she is, but how high an EMOTIONAL & TIME MAINTENANCE she is for me…

High emotional maintenance means you need to drop everything to settle her first, to hear her out (and not defend or interrupt her as she’s ranting away); and whatever time is needed for her to cope and ride through the “hurricane in the teacup” of her mind. BTW, I’m not referring to femme fatale types that will ultimately cause distress.

If you are not detached enough it will drain you. She’ll feel better but you’ll become a zombie.

I’m known to be most attracted to Alpha Females (Brenda my crossed-over wife was a Super-Alpha) and I do enjoy the feisty company of Alphas. I can usually coach and “tame” a Tiger Alpha into a pussy cat.

Now that doesn’t mean I don’t enjoy the company of a ultra-feminine woman. At least, I’ll be more relaxed and may not need to be so “on guard” with an Alpha. And I can be chivalrous to protect her.

BTW, Alphas are very aggressive and super tough at work and at home. But actually they are soft on the inside and hard on the outside and they are the most misunderstood people. They get best results and are the most favored by CEOs.

Happy Valentine’s Day.

#BounceBackersQuotes #AlphaFemales #SupermanTimeCommitmentSyndrome #HighEmotionalMaintenance #StormInATeacup #PapillonMetamorphosis

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Robert Chaen

Global CEO-Founder of ChangeU and Movsha Movers & Shakers, Hero-CEO Whisperer, Writer, The #1 Alpha Change Expert, Father of Asian FireWalking Robert Chaen is an International Keynote Speaker, writer, researcher, and corp games designer. He is famously known to be the “Hero-CEO Whisperer”, 1-on1 coaching with many CEOs and Celebrities for corporate strategies, staff & office political issues, personal branding, and even public figure OSHA safety drilling called Drager Defense. He has transformed CEOs and managers in Coca-Cola China, TVB Hong Kong, Cathay Pacific, Hong Kong Airport Services, VADS, TM, Public Bank, Auditor General's Office Maldives, etc. He is the prolific creator and online Author of innovative management tools such as DragonCEO, Diamond Leader, Papillon Personal Effectiveness, OSHA Drager Defense, KPI Bank, etc. He is also the Founder of Movsha, an international networking with monthly mingles with MOVers & SHAkers, Angels, Entrepreneurs, CEOs, Celebrities, HR-PR-CSR, HODs, and the Most Influential IDEA people. ​Chaen is widely considered as one of the top International Platform Keynote Speakers for Resorts World Genting Senior Management Conference (Manila), 7-Eleven HK, Samsung, Coca-Cola China Mini-MBA @Tsing Hua University, Cathay Pacific, Hong Kong Jockey Club, The Story Conference where he interviewed Datuk Kamarudin (Chairman of AirAsia) and Siti Nurhaliza. He has been widely featured in TVB, AWSJ, CNBC, SCMP, The Star, and Sin Chew. As “The Father of Asian FireWalking”, he coached TVB celebrities (Ekin Cheng Yee-Kin) to walk on 650°C fire; and raised HK$68M in the world’s 1st and only live TV Charity FireWalk (TVB Tung Wah Charity Show), before Tony Robbins even came to Asia. If Robert can get you to walk on 650⁰C fire, he can inspire you to be THE BEST. He champions CN-HK-EU-US Tycoons to be philanthropic, and to be angel investors to support the next generation of Jack Mas, Steve Jobs, Richard Bransons, Steven Spielbergs, or Barrack Obamas. With some slick motivational speakers with fake doctorates out there, graduates often describe Robert to be "the most credible, empowering, truthful Coach" who believe in his graduates to believe in themselves. ​However, clients have described Robert as "The #1 Cool Badass Alpha Change Expert". He has the coolest first class stature, rapport and trust from clients. He will not hesitate to tell the badass truth ever so gently because clients are paying him big bucks to reveal the truth, find solutions, persuade the hostile HODs, and align cross-teams within the organization. Originally based in Hong Kong for 20+ years, he had worked with top Branding/Ad agencies at J Walter Thompson and Leo Burnett, and was a certified FranklinCovey (7 Habits) in USA, and NLP MasterCoach (USA). His warmth is known to soften the most hardened, resistant sceptics. He will inspire your team to Go for Top 1, or to be a Dragon CEO. With boundless energies, Robert owns 15+ successful business Joint-Ventures, and created unique products under his global VC network called Chaen's Angels VC. He is deeply passionate about ChangeUTH Youth CSR, Science-Based Medicine (vs. quackery), short films and Reality TV. Touched by a personal tragedy through the loss of his HK-born Portuguese wife, co-coach and business partner, Brenda José of 18 years, Robert explores the many ways in which the spirit world is communicating with the living with real scientific studies and evidence. He gives inspiring conferences on The Secret Afterlife.

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