You might think she wants your car, your money, and gifts.
But the Right Woman wants your time, your smile, your honesty, your effort, and you choosing to put her as a priority.
I think for me, the Right Woman will definitely have my smile, honesty, sincere efforts, and she will be a priority.
What my problem is the “Supeman’s Time Commitment Syndrome”.
You know… “But Lois, I’m Superman. I belong to the world! I need to save people and the world, don’t you get it? I may have to cut short our dinner date at Ritz, or skip this weekend, ok?”
So the question is not how high a financial maintenance or high priority maintenance she is, but how high an EMOTIONAL & TIME MAINTENANCE she is for me…
High emotional maintenance means you need to drop everything to settle her first, to hear her out (and not defend or interrupt her as she’s ranting away); and whatever time is needed for her to cope and ride through the “hurricane in the teacup” of her mind. BTW, I’m not referring to femme fatale types that will ultimately cause distress.
If you are not detached enough it will drain you. She’ll feel better but you’ll become a zombie.
I’m known to be most attracted to Alpha Females (Brenda my crossed-over wife was a Super-Alpha) and I do enjoy the feisty company of Alphas. I can usually coach and “tame” a Tiger Alpha into a pussy cat.
Now that doesn’t mean I don’t enjoy the company of a ultra-feminine woman. At least, I’ll be more relaxed and may not need to be so “on guard” with an Alpha. And I can be chivalrous to protect her.
BTW, Alphas are very aggressive and super tough at work and at home. But actually they are soft on the inside and hard on the outside and they are the most misunderstood people. They get best results and are the most favored by CEOs.
Happy Valentine’s Day.
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