Top 5 things men find most physically attractive in women (PG rated)

Top 5 things men find most physically attractive in women (PG rated)

So ladies, I want you to take out a pen and a piece of paper and write down what you think that men find most physically attractive about us in order of importance. Then compare it to my research and see just how wrong you are!!!!

C’mon this will be fun get off your duff and go get that pen, seriously! Unless of course your that good and can make a mental list. Alright good enough.

Yeah, men are pigs, dogs, ass%$#@, for how shallow they can actually be. Unfortunately there really isn’t much we can do about that, they are who they are and alas, will never change. Although there may have been a bit of a mishap at the gene pool if your guy isn’t one of those visual molesters.

I must admit though that I was shocked when I did the research via the internet reading blogs etc. of real life guys spilling their guts on what they really found physically attractive about women. Granted the list does include the usual crap but the order of importance may surprise you!

Okay so here we go:

5. Boobs – Ha! and you thought this was going to be number 1 didn’t you? I have to admit so did I. Seriously though, through my determined fact finding I just couldn’t come up with anything to validate it being number one. Now don’t get me wrong there were a few guys that said they liked “big racks on chicks”, “the bigger the better”. For the most part men made comments that a mouthful is fine. Some even commented they liked the feel of natural breasts over fake boobies. Who would have thought???

So I guess it gives the term “fun bags” a whole new meaning! However, I’m not so sure I’m convinced. NO man can resist a nice rack and as far as I’m concerned they secretly find this most attractive they just don’t want to sound like an ass clown on the blogs. Then again, maybe we women keep telling ourselves this to continue to justify getting boob jobs………….moving on.

4. Face – Okay, so you must admit this probably comes to no surprise to you as far as where this lands on the list. It just validates how shallow men actually are. It gives the term “just put a bag over her head” meaning……at least in a man’s mind. Yes, once again men have lived up to womens expectations or lack there of. Give a man a nice set of tits to play with along with a great ass and who really cares about the face!

Seeing this as number four on the list clarifies this is sooo many ways. Just in case you think I’m being shallow………..It would be different if we were including other attributes on this list such as personality, sexiness, a great person, then of course looks would not matter but keep in mind that we are not, it’s a physical attributes list, thank you and moving on, we’re walking, we’re walking……..

3. Eyes – Aaaahhhh, yes the eyes, windows to the soul. I was surprised men even included this as something physically important. I figured they would just stick to the fleshy parts. However I guess they aren’t all that bad. One man said he liked it when a women had bedroom eyes and with one look could make his “person” crazy horny. So it’s not so much the eyes as what she can do with them is that what they are saying?

Not all. Some had specific eye requirements such as the color. Not surprisingly, most men adored blue and/or green eyes. Guess we women with the boring browns are screwed again! Not if the men prefer a Latina look then of course they said they liked the dark hair, dark eyes combo. However the majority still melted over a pair of baby blues.

2. Legs – This was absolutely no surprise to me as we all know men would give their left testicle to have a woman with long, lean, sexy legs. How does it go now? Ummmmm oh yeah! I like them long so they can wrap them around me. Well excuse me, but unless you’re a fatty fatty two by four can’t get through the bathroom door, any chicks set of gams can wrap around you. Those of us with legs on the shorter side (myself included) need some validation in this department!

Sure long and lean look sexy on a runway but to be able to wrap them around a man and squeeze the hell out of him? Not gonna happen, the women with shorter legs pack more muscle. In fact, shorter legs have shorter muscles and are able to bulk up a whole lot more than a longer pair of gams because they have longer muscles and will never look as shapely as a shorter pair of gams. So put that in your pipe and smoke it lovers of the long and lean legs!!!!

And now, the moment you’ve all been waiting for, the most attractive thing men find physically on women:




1. BUTT – Come on, honestly did you think it was going to be anything else?? In the world of “thick women” lovin’ men could it have actually been anything else?? Yes it’s no surprise men appreciate a nice ass. Firm, full, juicy, thick…….damn sounds like we’re discussing a steak! Well it’s not too far off to how some men describe women (as a piece of meat). For the most part men enjoyed looking at a woman who could fill out her jeans nicely. You know the old saying, hate to see you go but love to watch you leave?

Yup this applies here. I actually found a woman on these blogs who made a comment to the men raving about a nice ass and bravely asked the question “why is a nice ass so important, what is the fascination with a nice ass?” One of many men were of course eager to reply with something that only a man could say (and this is where the PG rating comes in) “We like to look at it jiggle while we are doing you from behind!” Wooooooow that was deep, I wonder how long it took him to think of that one? So the next time your doing your lunges and squats to keep your booty in the cutie, just think of why you’re doing it. So you can look good while you’re man is doing you from behind. Now that’s something to strive for in life!

So how did your list rate? Was it pretty close to the actual list or way off? Let me know what you think!

June 3, 2009 9:27 AM MST

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Global CEO-Founder of ChangeU and Movsha Movers & Shakers, Hero-CEO Whisperer, Writer, The #1 Alpha Change Expert, Father of Asian FireWalking Robert Chaen is an International Keynote Speaker, writer, researcher, and corp games designer. He is famously known to be the “Hero-CEO Whisperer”, 1-on1 coaching with many CEOs and Celebrities for corporate strategies, staff & office political issues, personal branding, and even public figure OSHA safety drilling called Drager Defense. He has transformed CEOs and managers in Coca-Cola China, TVB Hong Kong, Cathay Pacific, Hong Kong Airport Services, VADS, TM, Public Bank, Auditor General's Office Maldives, etc. He is the prolific creator and online Author of innovative management tools such as DragonCEO, Diamond Leader, Papillon Personal Effectiveness, OSHA Drager Defense, KPI Bank, etc. He is also the Founder of Movsha, an international networking with monthly mingles with MOVers & SHAkers, Angels, Entrepreneurs, CEOs, Celebrities, HR-PR-CSR, HODs, and the Most Influential IDEA people. ​Chaen is widely considered as one of the top International Platform Keynote Speakers for Resorts World Genting Senior Management Conference (Manila), 7-Eleven HK, Samsung, Coca-Cola China Mini-MBA @Tsing Hua University, Cathay Pacific, Hong Kong Jockey Club, The Story Conference where he interviewed Datuk Kamarudin (Chairman of AirAsia) and Siti Nurhaliza. He has been widely featured in TVB, AWSJ, CNBC, SCMP, The Star, and Sin Chew. As “The Father of Asian FireWalking”, he coached TVB celebrities (Ekin Cheng Yee-Kin) to walk on 650°C fire; and raised HK$68M in the world’s 1st and only live TV Charity FireWalk (TVB Tung Wah Charity Show), before Tony Robbins even came to Asia. If Robert can get you to walk on 650⁰C fire, he can inspire you to be THE BEST. He champions CN-HK-EU-US Tycoons to be philanthropic, and to be angel investors to support the next generation of Jack Mas, Steve Jobs, Richard Bransons, Steven Spielbergs, or Barrack Obamas. With some slick motivational speakers with fake doctorates out there, graduates often describe Robert to be "the most credible, empowering, truthful Coach" who believe in his graduates to believe in themselves. ​However, clients have described Robert as "The #1 Cool Badass Alpha Change Expert". He has the coolest first class stature, rapport and trust from clients. He will not hesitate to tell the badass truth ever so gently because clients are paying him big bucks to reveal the truth, find solutions, persuade the hostile HODs, and align cross-teams within the organization. Originally based in Hong Kong for 20+ years, he had worked with top Branding/Ad agencies at J Walter Thompson and Leo Burnett, and was a certified FranklinCovey (7 Habits) in USA, and NLP MasterCoach (USA). His warmth is known to soften the most hardened, resistant sceptics. He will inspire your team to Go for Top 1, or to be a Dragon CEO. With boundless energies, Robert owns 15+ successful business Joint-Ventures, and created unique products under his global VC network called Chaen's Angels VC. He is deeply passionate about ChangeUTH Youth CSR, Science-Based Medicine (vs. quackery), short films and Reality TV. Touched by a personal tragedy through the loss of his HK-born Portuguese wife, co-coach and business partner, Brenda José of 18 years, Robert explores the many ways in which the spirit world is communicating with the living with real scientific studies and evidence. He gives inspiring conferences on The Secret Afterlife.

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