“I’m ready to meet God. Every day is a bonus!”, says my Dad. What it is like to face death so near? [Twin Souls Part 39]

My Dad and I in Hong Kong (7 December 2014)


“I’m ready to meet God. Every day is a bonus!”, says my Dad. What it is like to face death so near?
[Twin Souls Part 39]

My father was diagnosed on 13 November 2014 with acute myeloid leukemia by Dr Tong of Caritas Hospital, Hong Kong. The doctor doesn’t think he has much time left but obviously cannot say when. So my Dad is dying… from a slow death – from old age, a weakening heart, and acute leukemia. He can still talk and in fairly good spirits with some ups and downs. My family do what we can to comfort and encourage him.

I met my Dad in December, 2014. Medically the doctors are amazed that my Dad is still alive. I sense there is still more life in my Dad since Brenda sent me a sign: a fly sat on my hand for 20+minutes and did not fly away. Only when “it’s about time”, I’ll whisper to my Dad’s soul to cross-over.

I had previously asked my Dad what does he feel like to know he is way passed the average life span. He said he is ready to go. “I’m ready to meet God. Every day is a bonus!”.

I wonder what it is like to face death so near? 

I wondered what Brenda felt when she was admitted to ICU, Ruttonjee Hospital on Thursday 19 December 2014. Within 24 hours she went into a coma as her organs failed from toxics seeping through a perforated intestines – due to suffering from Crohn’s Disease for 18 years. Although it was very sudden, I believed she knew that death was very near, and she wanted and was ready to cross-over.

Is there fear of death? How does a soul RIP?
Initially I’m sure that there is some extent of fear of dying. But eventually from observing and researching cross-cultures, most humans will realize that it’s time to go even if it’s only a split second awareness. At the time of crossing-over the soul knows and rest in peace i.e. rest in the Soul Universe. A soul becomes a “ghost” if one can’t RIP (What are “ghosts” will be another future article). Unless the soul wants to play a guardian angel role and give afterlife signs to their loved ones if they are open enough to accept the afterlife signs. Eventually the soul will be reborn in a pre-destined birthplace, time, mother, father, family – depending on the “soul eternal record and karmic accounts”.

Q. Am I ready to cross-over?
I’m ever ready. I still have worldly desires, career ambitions, human needs and wants – as long as I’m a human. However, I sense my time to cross-over is some ways away. When my time comes, Brenda will angelic soul whisper me to cross-over. As my Twin Soul she will be there to watch me cross-over. I fear nothing.

We come to this world empty.
We’ll leave this world empty.
Nothing we can bring to the other Spirit World except unsettled karmic accounts and the “soul eternal record” – for reincarnation, temporary guardian angel role, or nirvana rest for 1 to many lifetimes “break” from returning back to the physical world.

Read about “Soul Whisperer of Crossing-Over” in: What are “Twin Souls”?

Published: Sunday, 11 January 2015. 9:37am

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Global CEO-Founder of ChangeU and Movsha Movers & Shakers, Hero-CEO Whisperer, Writer, The #1 Alpha Change Expert, Father of Asian FireWalking Robert Chaen is an International Keynote Speaker, writer, researcher, and corp games designer. He is famously known to be the “Hero-CEO Whisperer”, 1-on1 coaching with many CEOs and Celebrities for corporate strategies, staff & office political issues, personal branding, and even public figure OSHA safety drilling called Drager Defense. He has transformed CEOs and managers in Coca-Cola China, TVB Hong Kong, Cathay Pacific, Hong Kong Airport Services, VADS, TM, Public Bank, Auditor General's Office Maldives, etc. He is the prolific creator and online Author of innovative management tools such as DragonCEO, Diamond Leader, Papillon Personal Effectiveness, OSHA Drager Defense, KPI Bank, etc. He is also the Founder of Movsha, an international networking with monthly mingles with MOVers & SHAkers, Angels, Entrepreneurs, CEOs, Celebrities, HR-PR-CSR, HODs, and the Most Influential IDEA people. ​Chaen is widely considered as one of the top International Platform Keynote Speakers for Resorts World Genting Senior Management Conference (Manila), 7-Eleven HK, Samsung, Coca-Cola China Mini-MBA @Tsing Hua University, Cathay Pacific, Hong Kong Jockey Club, The Story Conference where he interviewed Datuk Kamarudin (Chairman of AirAsia) and Siti Nurhaliza. He has been widely featured in TVB, AWSJ, CNBC, SCMP, The Star, and Sin Chew. As “The Father of Asian FireWalking”, he coached TVB celebrities (Ekin Cheng Yee-Kin) to walk on 650°C fire; and raised HK$68M in the world’s 1st and only live TV Charity FireWalk (TVB Tung Wah Charity Show), before Tony Robbins even came to Asia. If Robert can get you to walk on 650⁰C fire, he can inspire you to be THE BEST. He champions CN-HK-EU-US Tycoons to be philanthropic, and to be angel investors to support the next generation of Jack Mas, Steve Jobs, Richard Bransons, Steven Spielbergs, or Barrack Obamas. With some slick motivational speakers with fake doctorates out there, graduates often describe Robert to be "the most credible, empowering, truthful Coach" who believe in his graduates to believe in themselves. ​However, clients have described Robert as "The #1 Cool Badass Alpha Change Expert". He has the coolest first class stature, rapport and trust from clients. He will not hesitate to tell the badass truth ever so gently because clients are paying him big bucks to reveal the truth, find solutions, persuade the hostile HODs, and align cross-teams within the organization. Originally based in Hong Kong for 20+ years, he had worked with top Branding/Ad agencies at J Walter Thompson and Leo Burnett, and was a certified FranklinCovey (7 Habits) in USA, and NLP MasterCoach (USA). His warmth is known to soften the most hardened, resistant sceptics. He will inspire your team to Go for Top 1, or to be a Dragon CEO. With boundless energies, Robert owns 15+ successful business Joint-Ventures, and created unique products under his global VC network called Chaen's Angels VC. He is deeply passionate about ChangeUTH Youth CSR, Science-Based Medicine (vs. quackery), short films and Reality TV. Touched by a personal tragedy through the loss of his HK-born Portuguese wife, co-coach and business partner, Brenda José of 18 years, Robert explores the many ways in which the spirit world is communicating with the living with real scientific studies and evidence. He gives inspiring conferences on The Secret Afterlife.

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