Letting Go of Brenda: Brenda José’s last 25 minutes on Earth: Brenda’s last message to her friends [Twin Souls Part 13]


Letting Go of Brenda: Brenda José’s last 25 minutes on Earth: Brenda’s last message to her friends (Part 13)

Watch Robert’s video on the last 25 minutes of Brenda José life on Earth, click:

This is the complete uncensored transcript of the WhatsApp-Facebook real time updates between Robert Chaen and his ChangeU’s Team during Brenda Jose’s dying situation from 4:58pm to the last posting on 6:40pm on Monday 23 December, 2013.

A few hundred people saw these Facebook postings ‘live’ and these postings are still documented in my Facebook account, Robert Chaen Changeu.

Before this I was just talking out loud to Brenda who was in a coma for 3 days since Friday, 20 December
I do sense her presence and energy.

But this is the first time Brenda started to talk to me ‘forcefully’.
It’s not like she woke up from coma and start talking with me.
No. Neither is it a loud external voice talking to me.
But, it was the strong unmistakable voice of Brenda communicating through my intellect – soul to soul.

This was Brenda’s last communication with Robert and Brenda’s last message to her friends.

In hindsight, towards the end of the 25 minutes I felt the physical body of Brenda quickly transformed from normal Brenda to the Angelic Brenda.

In all the 25 minutes I was crying my eyeballs out, while whatsapping to the ChangeU Team @ChangeU Center in Petaling Jaya, Malaysia for them to post immediately on Facebook. Originally this Whatsapping-FB was just my raw spontaneous running quick updates to concerned friends, but it went beyond updating.

What we were experiencing was a series of distinctive beforedeath and afterlife communications and afterlife signs from Brenda José.


BJ = Brenda José                       (human form, but in coma)
CT = Chai Theng                       (ChangeU Leader @Malaysia Center)
JC = Jia Chee                              (ChangeU Intern @Malaysia Center)
RC = Robert Chaen                  (in ICU, Ruttonjee Hospital, Hong Kong)
[square brackets are typos, missing words, etc. Obviously the grammar is not perfect and un-edited in this very traumatic situation]

Transcript of Whatsapp-Facebook real time postings from 4:58pm to 5:23pm for Brenda’s last 25 minutes:

Brenda I get it.
No I have already stopped beating myself [up] and feeling guilty.
What[?] you want others not to feel guilty too.
OK I[‘m] passing your message in FB  (RC to BJ – 4:58pm)

You[‘ve] heard all their prayers and messages.  (RC to BJ – 4:59pm)

You are sending light to us[?] I thought we are sending [light] to you (RC to BJ – 5:00pm)

Pls update immediately  (RC to JC – 5:00pm)
You should celebrate my life and love, not [my] death  (BJ to friends– 5:02pm)

Don’t feel sad for me.  (BJ – 5:04pm)

Pass your love light to others. I don’t need it.  (BJ to friends – 5:05pm)

I’m one of your Guardian Angels. You need to let me [go], ok
Love xxxooo Bren  [BJ to friends – 5:07pm)

Let me go. I want to go for a long time. (BJ to friends  – 5:08pm)

Brenda this is very painful for me to channel your messages to others.

Pls talk direct[ly] to them.  (RC to BJ – 5:11pm)

Robert you are my Twin Soul so you are part of me on Earth.   (BJ to RC – 5:13pm)

I’m just an ordinary guy. (RC to BJ – 5:14pm)

Yes ordinary and you are Wizard Chaen are you not.  (BJ to RC – 5:15pm)

Ok I surrender to GOD (RC to God – 5:16pm)

You looked for unconditional love all your life.
I don’t know how.  (RC to BJ – 5:17pm)

CT posting all these yes?  (RC to JC – 5:18pm)

U sure?  (JC to RC– 5:18pm)

Yes all her soul and my soul are talking  (RC to JC – 5:19pm)

okok  (JC to RC – 5:19pm)

Don’t censor  (RC to JC – 5:19pm)

Ok ok I surrender.
I’m just your instrument tool  (RC to BJ 5:20pm)

If not I’m not going   (BJ to RC – 5:22pm)

Ok why on your death bed Bren   (RC to BJ– 5:23pm)
If [not] you will not listen and do.  (BJ to RC – 5:23pm)

I Drama Queen. (Brenda’s last 3 words on Earth. BJ – 5:24pm >> 1 minute delay in typing, sending FB)


Robert Chaen’s actual posting in Facebook was seen by many on 23 December 2013 – in 3 separate FB postings: You can search in Facebook, type this: post of december 23, 2013 robert chaen
  1. Click here       2. Click here   3. Click here    4. Click here   5. Click here   6. Click here   Brenda’s Last Facebook Banner: Twin Angels: 7. Click here

Suddenly it was total dead silence. I did not hear any more voices.
I looked around and then up the heart monitoring TV screen: the heart rate was a ‘flat liner’.
I was trembling.

I looked up again: no beat, no blip curve – totally flat.
I pointed to the nurse who was intensively monitoring the TV monitor.
“It’s flat!”
“Yes, I’ve signaled for the doctor” said the nurse, who had been sitting in front of bed and watching for the flat liner for 3 hours.

“OMG, Brenda is dead!”

Transcript of Whatsapp-Facebook real time postings continued from 5:26pm to 6:40pm

Update: Brenda just left. Flat liner.
Time of Death: 5.23pm  (RC to friends – 5:26pm)

Update: Doctor coming now  (RC to friends – 5:27pm]

“Please leave the ward so that the doctor can check” said the nurse.
I sob uncontrollably for 10 minutes.

Nurse came out of ward and asked “Do you want to see Brenda now, and go? Or, do you want us to clean up her body, remove all tubes, tapes first , and then you see her? It will take around 10 minutes.
“Please clean her body. Take your time” I said.
It took 30 minutes.

Update:  Brenda and I did a completion process. We finally talked. I felt missing for talking to her in coma.
But Brenda told me she heard all your messages even in FB. Robert   (RC to friends – 5:49pm)

Update:  I just saw Brenda’[s] body cleaned up. She looked serene and peaceful.

I swiped some tears left from both of her eyes. I hug her lifeless body, it was cold.
I never kissed and hug a shockingly cold dead body before.

I stroke her hair, face, chin, held her hand for the last time.
I was crying my eyeballs out.

I’m going to rest. My time to grieve. A tribute is set up. Please write messages from your heart to Brenda.
Brenda is my Guardian Angel and Twin Soul so I’m protected, loved, and blessed. We all take care of ourselves. If you are not ok talk to someone or those who are strong help others.
I will not be able to answer or reply.
Love and Light
Robert   (RC to friends – 6:30pm)

ChangeU Angels we did excellent. Big thank you. (RC to ChangeU Team – 6:33pm)

I had witnessed my wife die over 23 hours, 23 minutes since I first saw her at ICU at 6:00pm.
Watching Brenda die was the most traumatic test from God I’ve ever had to go through in my life.

ChangeU Angels. Let’s all rest. My love to you. You’ve been so supportive.  (RC to ChangeU Team – 6:40pm)

Little did I realize what I signed up for…

Watch Robert’s video on the last 25 minutes of Brenda José life on Earth, click:

Published: Thursday, 1 May, 2014. 2:33pm.

#TwinSouls  #BrendaJose  #AngelBrenda

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Robert Chaen

Global CEO-Founder of ChangeU and Movsha Movers & Shakers, Hero-CEO Whisperer, Writer, The #1 Alpha Change Expert, Father of Asian FireWalking Robert Chaen is an International Keynote Speaker, writer, researcher, and corp games designer. He is famously known to be the “Hero-CEO Whisperer”, 1-on1 coaching with many CEOs and Celebrities for corporate strategies, staff & office political issues, personal branding, and even public figure OSHA safety drilling called Drager Defense. He has transformed CEOs and managers in Coca-Cola China, TVB Hong Kong, Cathay Pacific, Hong Kong Airport Services, VADS, TM, Public Bank, Auditor General's Office Maldives, etc. He is the prolific creator and online Author of innovative management tools such as DragonCEO, Diamond Leader, Papillon Personal Effectiveness, OSHA Drager Defense, KPI Bank, etc. He is also the Founder of Movsha, an international networking with monthly mingles with MOVers & SHAkers, Angels, Entrepreneurs, CEOs, Celebrities, HR-PR-CSR, HODs, and the Most Influential IDEA people. ​Chaen is widely considered as one of the top International Platform Keynote Speakers for Resorts World Genting Senior Management Conference (Manila), 7-Eleven HK, Samsung, Coca-Cola China Mini-MBA @Tsing Hua University, Cathay Pacific, Hong Kong Jockey Club, The Story Conference where he interviewed Datuk Kamarudin (Chairman of AirAsia) and Siti Nurhaliza. He has been widely featured in TVB, AWSJ, CNBC, SCMP, The Star, and Sin Chew. As “The Father of Asian FireWalking”, he coached TVB celebrities (Ekin Cheng Yee-Kin) to walk on 650°C fire; and raised HK$68M in the world’s 1st and only live TV Charity FireWalk (TVB Tung Wah Charity Show), before Tony Robbins even came to Asia. If Robert can get you to walk on 650⁰C fire, he can inspire you to be THE BEST. He champions CN-HK-EU-US Tycoons to be philanthropic, and to be angel investors to support the next generation of Jack Mas, Steve Jobs, Richard Bransons, Steven Spielbergs, or Barrack Obamas. With some slick motivational speakers with fake doctorates out there, graduates often describe Robert to be "the most credible, empowering, truthful Coach" who believe in his graduates to believe in themselves. ​However, clients have described Robert as "The #1 Cool Badass Alpha Change Expert". He has the coolest first class stature, rapport and trust from clients. He will not hesitate to tell the badass truth ever so gently because clients are paying him big bucks to reveal the truth, find solutions, persuade the hostile HODs, and align cross-teams within the organization. Originally based in Hong Kong for 20+ years, he had worked with top Branding/Ad agencies at J Walter Thompson and Leo Burnett, and was a certified FranklinCovey (7 Habits) in USA, and NLP MasterCoach (USA). His warmth is known to soften the most hardened, resistant sceptics. He will inspire your team to Go for Top 1, or to be a Dragon CEO. With boundless energies, Robert owns 15+ successful business Joint-Ventures, and created unique products under his global VC network called Chaen's Angels VC. He is deeply passionate about ChangeUTH Youth CSR, Science-Based Medicine (vs. quackery), short films and Reality TV. Touched by a personal tragedy through the loss of his HK-born Portuguese wife, co-coach and business partner, Brenda José of 18 years, Robert explores the many ways in which the spirit world is communicating with the living with real scientific studies and evidence. He gives inspiring conferences on The Secret Afterlife.

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