Dying Heart: Brenda’s heart rate hovered at 0 but she did not die yet [Twin Souls Part 11]


Dying Heart: Brenda’s heart rate hovered at 0 but she did not die yet (Part 11)

(Twin Souls Part 11 of the true real time story of a ‘Twin Souls’ connection, and the search for unconditional love, truth, healing, attraction, and spirituality)

About updates
There is obviously a time gap first in typing my Whatsapp message (and I’m bloody slow),
and for the team to type and post on both Brenda and my FB walls.
And we got waves and waves of support, well wishing.

I could not see the FB replies until after it was all over cause I was way too occupied to:
One way Whatsapp updates, put mobile to Brenda’s ear for friends to talk to her,
talking out loud who is coming next, treating her like she is totally awake.

Heart rate down to 30-36 at 12:38pm

Royce finally came around 12:45pm

She massaged Brenda.
Her heart rate shoot from 30s to 42, blood pressure goes up by 2-5 points.

By now nearly available Hong Kong friends have visited and said their goodbyes.
I’m now in a very good space as I felt I did something to contribute.

Brenda responds the most to massages
Brenda loves my massages.

One time she shared that my massage helps to alleviate pain from Crohn’s Disease.
So I felt that I not helpless or hopeless when she is having a Crohn’s flare up.
I can contribute by relieving the tensions.

I keeping massaging her for an hour until around 2:00pm.
I have amazed that her heart rate shoots from 30s to 40.

Then my brother Andrew came and he lead The Lord’s prayer between the three of us.

We went to have a quick lunch.

I Whatsapp my staff to close the window of opportunity (11:00am to 2:45pm) of reading messages to Brenda.
I felt tension as I prepared for saying once again my last goodbyes after lunch.

Came into the room.
Ann, our neighbor from Sau Wa Fong was talking to her.
I rushed her to complete it.

I did my last talking to Brenda, hugs, stroking her hair, face, upper chest.
Every time I put my face next to her face I can smell a very distinct smell from a mixture of medical and her own body smells.

I started my own process of grieving.

0 heart rate; 0 over 22 blood pressure for 2 hours.
I Whatsapp this update at 3:08pm which confused everyone:
I said my last goodbye.
Her heart rate is X.
Her blood pressure is 0.
Goodbye Brenda.
Last phase.
Love Robert

Note: X is one level below the 2nd last level which is 0 with a slight blip in heart line).
The last level is a flat liner – no blip for both heart rate and blood pressure.

I much later saw many people posted condolences, RIP, etc.
Many on seeing that posting thought Brenda had died.

But she did not die – not quite yet.
And not for another 133 minutes.

Published: Sunday, 27 April, 2014. 2:55pm.

[Continued in… @Part 12]

#TwinSouls  #AngelBrenda

Published by

Robert Chaen

Global CEO-Founder of ChangeU and Movsha Movers & Shakers, Hero-CEO Whisperer, Writer, The #1 Alpha Change Expert, Father of Asian FireWalking Robert Chaen is an International Keynote Speaker, writer, researcher, and corp games designer. He is famously known to be the “Hero-CEO Whisperer”, 1-on1 coaching with many CEOs and Celebrities for corporate strategies, staff & office political issues, personal branding, and even public figure OSHA safety drilling called Drager Defense. He has transformed CEOs and managers in Coca-Cola China, TVB Hong Kong, Cathay Pacific, Hong Kong Airport Services, VADS, TM, Public Bank, Auditor General's Office Maldives, etc. He is the prolific creator and online Author of innovative management tools such as DragonCEO, Diamond Leader, Papillon Personal Effectiveness, OSHA Drager Defense, KPI Bank, etc. He is also the Founder of Movsha, an international networking with monthly mingles with MOVers & SHAkers, Angels, Entrepreneurs, CEOs, Celebrities, HR-PR-CSR, HODs, and the Most Influential IDEA people. ​Chaen is widely considered as one of the top International Platform Keynote Speakers for Resorts World Genting Senior Management Conference (Manila), 7-Eleven HK, Samsung, Coca-Cola China Mini-MBA @Tsing Hua University, Cathay Pacific, Hong Kong Jockey Club, The Story Conference where he interviewed Datuk Kamarudin (Chairman of AirAsia) and Siti Nurhaliza. He has been widely featured in TVB, AWSJ, CNBC, SCMP, The Star, and Sin Chew. As “The Father of Asian FireWalking”, he coached TVB celebrities (Ekin Cheng Yee-Kin) to walk on 650°C fire; and raised HK$68M in the world’s 1st and only live TV Charity FireWalk (TVB Tung Wah Charity Show), before Tony Robbins even came to Asia. If Robert can get you to walk on 650⁰C fire, he can inspire you to be THE BEST. He champions CN-HK-EU-US Tycoons to be philanthropic, and to be angel investors to support the next generation of Jack Mas, Steve Jobs, Richard Bransons, Steven Spielbergs, or Barrack Obamas. With some slick motivational speakers with fake doctorates out there, graduates often describe Robert to be "the most credible, empowering, truthful Coach" who believe in his graduates to believe in themselves. ​However, clients have described Robert as "The #1 Cool Badass Alpha Change Expert". He has the coolest first class stature, rapport and trust from clients. He will not hesitate to tell the badass truth ever so gently because clients are paying him big bucks to reveal the truth, find solutions, persuade the hostile HODs, and align cross-teams within the organization. Originally based in Hong Kong for 20+ years, he had worked with top Branding/Ad agencies at J Walter Thompson and Leo Burnett, and was a certified FranklinCovey (7 Habits) in USA, and NLP MasterCoach (USA). His warmth is known to soften the most hardened, resistant sceptics. He will inspire your team to Go for Top 1, or to be a Dragon CEO. With boundless energies, Robert owns 15+ successful business Joint-Ventures, and created unique products under his global VC network called Chaen's Angels VC. He is deeply passionate about ChangeUTH Youth CSR, Science-Based Medicine (vs. quackery), short films and Reality TV. Touched by a personal tragedy through the loss of his HK-born Portuguese wife, co-coach and business partner, Brenda José of 18 years, Robert explores the many ways in which the spirit world is communicating with the living with real scientific studies and evidence. He gives inspiring conferences on The Secret Afterlife.

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